Dark Side of KPOP Fandom

 

I didn’t mean to make the title like this but i feel like it is the only suitable one…. Some kpop fans are really starting to creep me out and all the fantasy i have from loving kpop is starting to shatter because of these creepy people!

We say: kpop is not just music, it’s a family, but WHY do some people have to go around making other people unhappy?

OKAY i’ll just get to the point:

FANWARS!!!

This is something i extremely hate about kpop fandom: fanwars! Enjoy the music together? NO! Love the idols together? NO!! Live in peace and harmony? NO!!! They just have to quarrel about who’s better who’s prettier who’s ier who’s more popular and that makes me so sick!!

They even take it the extend where they have to curse each other, curse their families curse their friends, it is so saddening…

I’m really happy i don’t need to see all these here, you people are sensible people! But in other sites especially youtube it just doesn’t stop!

And the other part that i don’t like of kpop fandom is the sasaengs that are hurting our idols but i’m not gonna rant about it, not yet.

Just saying, and hoping that we don’t turn into people like them! I don’t want to waste my precious life in doing things that doesn’t matter! =DD

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ChaoticDarkAngel
#1
I hope you don't mind me commenting ^^

There are groups I don't care for like EXO for example, Wonder Girls and all that but I do not waste my time hating on them as long as nobody forces me to listen to them like some fans do I'm cool with people liking Exo :)

I don't think any of the idols would appreciate fans creating fanwars. Like for example a Homin only fan sent Jaejoong from JYJ a DEATH THREAT. I heard Yunho was pretty pissed too at that Homin fan and I'm sure he was right?

JYJ/Homin are still friends with each other. But now Cassies are creating fanwars of who's better now and it's upsetting to say the least -__-

Maybe that's off topic?

But yeah seriously guys. DBSK/JYJ, SNSD, Wonder Girls, Exo, Shinee, SuJu etc are all FRIENDS WITH EACH OTHER. Why can't us fans respect peoples opinions and not bash someone, for not liking a certain group right?

Peace, love and hugs! ^.^
--nerdyexotic #2
i dont get it... if people dont like k-pop, why do they waste their time bashing my favorite genre of music?!
fanficlover95 #3
yeah...im agree with you...we should ignore them who want to start fanswars.....its only waste of time...
they came from the same entertainment...they are a big family...why we must compare them to their sunbaes...?? they have their own traits and characters...especially for EXO...they are still new and they need our support...we should stop comparing them and support them
baoZicaekeu #4
yeah! i agree! i'm not saying that all the ELFs are like this but, they mostly bash EXO and the fellow EXOtics (in youtube) about who's better! i mean why can't they just love them both?!
they came from the same entertainment!!! and they're family!

my friend even tries to piss me off about compairing SuJu from EXO...yes, she pisses me off but i try to hold myself from exploding.

they're amazing in their own ways! why compare?
Jinkiphoo
#5
yeah, me too, so sick of those pointless stupid fanwars!
I'm not a fixed fan at all, hv many bias groups.....And i don't compare them for they all are good in their own ways.
DdazzlingZYX #6
i totally agreed with u on this. im getting sick of all the fanwars.
JellieBangsterBaby
#7
i was asked to leave tumblr and called a nobody, scum of the earth, and blah blah blah much more......all because i like a large number of groups both male and female and i dont fight over TITLES like whos iest, whos better at this or this or this.......i mean wow.....crazy right?
YoungjaesBrain
#8
WOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOO!
So glad that there are so many neutrals in KPOP!
They just take 'bias' to a whole new level, the worst one at that.
It's so difficult when I go through Kpop fandom threads and come across these fanwars that were initiated by other fandoms...
Can't they just sit still and read their own threads instead of interfering with other fandoms?
It gets worse when some fans don't know what 'keep calm' means. They don't realize that giving attention to the 'bashers' just makes them even eager to get on your nerves. And that's how fanwars start.
Seriously if it's only the basher bashing, even if he/she keeps it up for a few times but eventually gets ignored, they'll know better than to waste more of their time doing nothing productive-when bashing isn't any productive either -_-#..

Well I can't really agree 100% with you about arguing on who's better and all that.
Everyone has their opinions and they have the right to voice it out. That's only until they forget their limits and go overboard.
There are so many who go around calling the opposing teams '____s' and '____es', 'e' even. That's just so so so immature. The worst is when they don't even know a tad thing about the people they're bashing. They judge them by not judging at all, and that's really not a smart thing to do. Cuz the offended fandoms are always there to defend their idols and pull out all the facts to prove them innocent.
Said 'basher' gets embarrassed but doesn't want to back down - grabs own idol as shield - "So what? XXX is waaaaaaaaaaaaaay ______ than your stupid f___king ______!"

I don't really see the point in these silly arguments. And when you get to know their ages; OTL; I've just wasted my time going past children's convo... It's worse when it's a kiddy quarrel cause they're just insensible... really. But when it comes to really mindless adults, the cursing is worse, and it goes into more detailed stuff... and you don't want to know who's threatening who to what.
love_kris
#9
i totally agree with you
you rocks!!
catinabamboohat
#10
Ah, I totally agree with you~
Every time I see a fan war, I'm like, why can't they all just love each other ;~;
Kpop is a family, people, so STOP HATIN.
And yes, I agree that YouTube is the worst =.="
Renren96
#11
Oh, I agree with you!
Another to add, is some crazy fan girls are getting creepy with their idols. This one girl told one of my friends on here that she'd kill her because they had the same bias. It's really messed up how people are acting over things like this. Just enjoy everything together because I don't think idols would want anyone to start fan wars like this.
noona37
#12
all of your post has a lot good points!!!
anon_02
#13
Super agree! Are they using their brains?
Why go crazy about them?
What I mean is they are just peoplel like us. It is just their job to make a living....
Everyone deserves a private peaceful life.