I probably already know what some of you are thinking. Oh she's a cassie, so she's a HoMin fan; then she is a Holyshinki. She's a stan. But here is the truth, the solid truth. Yes I am a cassiopeia, but I will not side with one side or the other, I suppose I am still one of those people who sits on the fence with the whole DBSK thing.

I'm not going to give my opinion on who I think was right because I personally was not involved. I only listened to DBSK's music for a bit until I got more into kpop and then I learned about the lawsuit. Otherwise I would have remained oblivious to it all.

And I can't call myself a stan. I don't plan to stalk him or go raid his house or call him on his home phone. So yeah if you want to call me a boring fan then fine.

So why is this post titled Yunho? Well he is the member that I like more out of all 5 of them. But hold on you said you are a cassiopeia. That is true, but is it wrong to have a preference while still liking the other members?

I'm going to be honest with you people. The hate for him, it needs to stop. Yes I say this because I am a fan of his but I say it with reason. Dismiss it or not like it, that's your choice but the reason is because you probably can't stand it when people insult, say mean things about your bias even if it isn't the same one as me. I am asking that if you do insult Yunho that you would please stop, out of respect and because I think it hurts him more than anyone realises. Wouldn't that hurt anyone? Don't we look down upon the bullies in high school and work? So why is this any different?

Just because he's famous, he deserves it etc. No those are not valid excuses, there is NO EXCUSE for bullying.

The reason you can't tell is because he doesn't talk about the hatred against him. He doesn't appear to dwell on it, but that may not be true. Somedays it might get him sad and down, but other days he is able to forget about it. Its hard to forgive but he forgave a girl who tried to kill him and imagine how much guts it would have taken for him to do that.

The fact he was and still is the leader gives him more weight on his shoulders. He probably had to carry a lot with him for the past eight years, problems members had with the other members, problems members had with the staff and worst of all the burden of the group possibly splitting. How hard would it be to hold on a piece of string that was tied between two cars, both going in different directions and trying to keep them together without being split in half?

We don't really give him enough credit. We as his fans are happy to confess that we would love to marry him or bed him whatever rocks the boat, but how many of us are able to step back and instead of screaming our heads off when we meet him be able to say, "Thank you for doing your best," "you are really strong," "Thank you Yunho."

I guess the reason I'm posting this is because I want to say thank you to him. Heck he won't ever read this but I know that there are other fans out there who feel the same.

So:

For all you've done for others, for your family, your friends, the members of TVXQ, staff and for us fans I thank u on behalf of us. We've failed at understanding how you feel at times, we haven't always encouraged you when you needed it. There have been times when we've shown a bad or wrong image of cassiopeia or Yunholics which has caused hate to you from the people we offended. We are sorry that we forget to think about your need over our own, because if you weren't around. If you weren't the leader of TVXQ, there would be no Cassiopeia, no red balloons, no Yunholics. I hope and pray that this year you feel blessed despite the pressure of schedules and maintaining a good image and that most importantly that you do not hate yourself for any reason. We cassiopeia will try and give more to others, hate less and love more. Please God let us be able to do this. God bless you Yunho, for now and for the rest of your life.

Love

An Australian Cassiopeia.