I'M TERRIBLE

You can go right ahead and kill me now.

Go right ahead and call me a filthy hypocrite.

I want to change my ultimate bias. From Hyuk to Kris. 

Now I know what you're all thinking.

HOW DOES ONE CHANGE AN ULTIMATE?

I don't know. But the more I see Kris, the more I see how he acts, it just.

He's a great person. He loves s, he takes care of them. He's amazing and he's so good at the things he does. He knows how to lead and how to take control.

Then you have Hyuk. He's great, he's kind but he can be a complete jerk sometimes, and that bothers me. It bothers me that he broke his promise and drank. Under any other circumstance, the drinking wouldn't have mattered. But it matters here. And I hate that sometimes he can be pretty mean.

I feel horrible, and I'm sure I'll regret it. But right now, I'm lost.

Guys help? It's really been bothering me and I hate this. I hate doing this. I have no respect for myself because I'm scared that I'll change my mind and ugh. I can't.

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katty_chunjae
#1
Aaaaaaand I've just read your responses so I may as well as not have bothered OTL xD
katty_chunjae
#2
I completely agree with you and I think the others arguing with you are a little dumb -cough more than a little-. People's opinions can change, and that's just natural. I mean, Hyukjae was my ultimate all-time ultra bias (note the past tense otl) but recently I've started to... kinda go off him. From the breaking his promise not to drink, from we got married (ohmygosh I actually punched the computer screen then) from the talk show with JooByungJin... Idk, I've just started to like him less and less. Not that I dislike him, it's just that he's slipping lower down my list. Now my new bias is Sehun (IDEK WHY LOL) and my friends are like 'I thought it was always going to be Hyukjae?' but I'm like 'meh it's changed, deal with it.
Basically I just want to say that I think Kris is aweshum and you are awshum as well. and I find other people -theoneswhoyouarearguingwith cough- are being a bit hypocritical seeing they could always change their opinions as well.
That's all. -like Miranda would say in the Devil wears Prada LOL-
katty_chunjae, OUT! <3
Dubulge
#3
I already changed him to my ultimate bias...XD
Chocoberries
#4
EONNIE!! We are totally on the same page! I'm starting to feel like my bias is slowly changing, drastically for that matter! from Hyuk to Kris too!

This is really bad...

I have to agree with you about everything you said about Hyuk. He said he'll never drink, and what happened?!
I'm still not over what he did with the girl in WE GOT MARRIED, I forgot her name, but Hyuk made her cry.

I DON'T LIKE GUYS WHO BREAK THEIR PROMISES, DRINKS, AND MAKES A GIRL CRY!!

But I'm not really sure if Kris is not like Hyuk...

BUT I LOVE HYUK AND KRIS!

I guess I just love Kris better now...

T^T complicated...

our hearts... only one person can fit at a time...
mrslee19
#5
Talking about an EXO member, right? MM, I do not know how to say this without sounding mean.. You know, it's fine if you like Kris. People change their ideas, their likings--it's normal. You can like whoever you want. It's the Hyukjae drank thing that I don't understand completely. Look,Hyukjae made a promise.. it's true. He didn't keep it. But you really started liking him less because of that? I honestly don't know anything about these EXO guys, but I know that they have debuted not long ago... This Kris can look perfect,but you know him for just a lil time-- I'm not saying that he's not good. Not bashing anyone; But people here are changing their biases for a group that they have known for a few months. An Ultimate bias can be changed, of course. But just because Hyukjae broke his promise and he's mean (yeah, he's mean. He's mean with Donghae. He's been mean because he made a girl cry,but then he felt sorry.)--yeah, I know maybe I'm sounding like I'm trying to justify Hyukjae, but I just don't get how can people change their ultimate like that. I like other idols too--I adore Myungsoo, I'm going crazy for Joon.
But Hyukjae.... He's Hyukjae-- I know that you know what I'm trying to say.


Coff coff-- okay. I was completely incoherent in what I wrote. I won't blame you if you change your ultimate bias. Maybe I won't understand at first, but it's okay. If you really prefer Kris over Hyukjae... Okay.

With Love,
Unnie XD
-quack
#6
It's ok... (HYUKKIE~ YOU LOST A JEWEL!) but when I was reading this my mouth could... Catch a... Banana! (I don't want to catch a fly...) But it's your choice... I like Kris too in EXO-M but Kyuhyun is still my ultimate bias... Sorry for a short comment... But, I'm also watching things about other bands like Infinite and they are also climbing my wall of groups... They climbed from like under 10 to 5th place... EXO from 9th to 4th, Teen Top from under 10 to 3rd... Sorry that I'm telling you this... So you can change who you like... I don't mind... (My Mind: NOOO EUNHYUKKIE~) Ok~^^
brattygurl #7
You can like whoever you want to like and feelings change over time so it's not impossible to want to change your bias, but remember that Kris is new so there's excitement in new things plus you only know him for a coup,e of months so you don't know how he'll show more of himself as time goes on. I'm sure that there will be things that you'll hate about him too so does that mean you'll change your mind again? You should like someone for their good and bad parts. so to stop liking Hyuk because he drank once with his "family" that's a bit unrealistic don't you think? No one would have friends or boyfriends if we had to live up to the expectation that we put on idols.
Like whoever you want and you shouldn't have to explain yourself, just don't make the change because you got caught up in the craze. Sorry if I sound harsh because I don't mean to, I'm just disappointed in people jumping from their suju bias to exo so quickly without really knowing much about them yet. But I can't stop you or anyone else if that's how you really feel.
EastSeaStrawberry
#8
Well. I can be like everyone else and pretend to be all happy and be like oh it's okay, your choice is your choice, whatever makes you happy and all of that. but I won't.
All I'll say is good luck with your confliction, and don't get too distracted by it.
No one will blame you. but. but I will. I blame you Jill. I blame you. and dont blame hyuk for breaking his promise. Maybe he changed his mind too, just like you are perhaps about to do.
An Ultimate is what you feel, not what you choose, so don't try to choose. just. let it happen. whatever happens, happens. Don't worry about it, honestly no one will blame you except for me, but I have a right to blame you, so that's different.
kiwibubblecat
#9
I can feel you. My ultimate bias is Heechul, but Kris is climbing fast in my heart. They are different but it really looks like Kris seems better. But in the end, I can never replace Heechul because I love him so so much despite everything. <3

It's really up to you, who you really like and all. Don't make it hard for you. Whoever makes you happy, that's what matters. :>
MorningDeer0420
#10
Who will blame you ? I'm actually facing the same situation as well. Luhan is trying to climb up my ultimate bias list so i guess our hearts got triggered by EXO XD It broke my heart as well that Hyukjae drank when he made a promise with Junsu that he will not.... well, EXO is not bad either. Can't believe you like dui zhang as well. Who could resist his hotness that I even thought he came out from a manga 0.0 <--(D.O face)
SungRa #11
i don't blame you because this boy just amazing but i can't change my ultimate bias, hahahaha. Your case same as mine hahahaha but after i watched his y solo, hyukjae back to top of my bias list hahahaha. And i'm not judging you but exo just debut, we still don't know real him. :) i'm not saying kris is bad or what, he is good guys but we still donlt know much about them.
ifallelsefails
#12
oh that's okay! EXO boggles my mind too! kk. But not to the point I'm replacing Donghae since I can only love Donghae this much much much, lol XDD

It's not a bad thing, don't worry! I'm not judging you for it. I mean it's your choice and if it makes you happy then go on ^^ I can totally understand you. I mean, who could resist this hot dragaon *^*
LeeJinah007 #13
Kris is kind of amazing. It's okay he made my bias list go out of whack too! ^^ Dang Kris with those good looks of his...
XinGTvb #14
Wth? He drank? How did u know?