i am homophobic but i also believe yunjae is real

i had a bad past related to gay thingy, thats why i am a homophobic. 4 years ago, my second sister get married when she was 28 years old. in our society, its late enough to be talked by the olders. even my parents worried about her. but, when she brought that guy to our house, my family was so happy. she finally get her 'happiness'. after they get married, they look good together at first... then after 6 month, that guy started showing his true self a bit by bit. my sis start telling my other sister about her husband. but the worst thing, she told us that that guy has never touch her a.k.a her... then, after a year she find out that the guy had a little buddy and they were so 'close'. she also found a love bite on her husband neck... that guy havent touch his wife but he a boy...she tried to maintain her rasionality and tried her best to change that guy to prevent them from divorce, and because has give her heart to that guy, she love him too much... she tried to safe her marriage, but that guy become worse. he refuse to come to see my parents to discuss their problem... sometime he not was not at home until the next day...until one day my family and my sister couldnt kept their anger any longer, my sis decided to divorce with the guy... my sis called her mother in law about that, and the best thing was her mother in law scolded my sis for leaving her son... that guy lie to his own parents that the divorce cause by my sis... then they go to the court, and that guy, without any hesitation signing the divorce paper... that guy only marry to my sis to shut people mouth from talking that he is a gay... he only using my sister for his own importance... and left my sis without nothing... even an apology...how i hate gay thingy after that, i even ripped the newspaper that show the gay that married in other country... i really really hate gay couple!!! but then i fall in love with jaejoong, then dbsk... and the weird thing was... i think yunjae couple is so sweet!... god, i think i am crazy...

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ChaoticDarkAngel
#1
I'm sorry I hope you don't mind me commenting.

I'm Christian too and I'm also a believer in Yunjae AND gay rights because I'm friends with homouals/bi people. No I'm straight myself but you have to realize homoual's deserve love and happiness just as much as us straight people deserve love and happiness.

God loves everybody and I don't believe he would hate someone simply for being homoual.

I just get so irritated when people bash homouals they NEED love too don't you realize that?

The guy that dated your sister was just scared you wouldn't accept him for who he is, so he had to hide his uality so he wouldn't be ridiculed and mocked by others.

People can't help who they are. And we can't force people to be straight, gay/lesbian whatever. We are who we are.
yunjaemania
#2
don't know what to say... but it's good that ur sister left that guy.

and yes, Yunjae is a sweet couple, sigh....it's so hard not to fall in love to the couple :(