I was on tumblr when I encountered a request about an EXO member, specifically asking when he hits you. Now I've never been  in a relationship let alone an abusive one at that. But regardless it seems very inappropriate, people should be educated on this subject a bit more thoroughly. I think any man who puts his hands on a women is weak. Why put your hands on someone smaller than you? To be honest, I don't see violence as a form of love just the opposite. I don't nor ever will condone this ever.