lmao just bored out of nowhere

ei lmao idk if anyone gonna read this but im writing down anyways

im struggling like a whole ing lot and idek how to promote my books and things like that. i see this cool person and instead of making friends i'll constantly stalk him/her and likes all their posts for the rest of my life. i just don't know how to approach or be casual like lmao, i'll actuall sweat and make some lame excuses to runaway and cry in some corner after literally just saying hi. welcome to social awkward person 101. 

the thing is i tried hard on what i do and i wanted ppl to see them and i know my way of doing it is not affective but like, idk what else can i do. Im not a socialable person like, at all. i comment on some stories and when i actually get a reply just i squeal and screetched but never bold enough to make friends. r e g r e t s t h o. 

i need to learn how to make friends, it's so hard it h ur ts. 

i guess there is no point in trying to promote without having th guts to make friends. but how tho? 

 

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stonee #1
It might be hard to make friends especially if you're not use to open up yourself but if you really want to get to know someone, sometimes putting extra effort and adding a bit courage is worth it especially if you really want too.

You might feel discourage if they won't reply but hey, at the end of the day you manage to overcome your fear! You may feel embarrass or regret, which I will probably feel it later for this, but in the end you will soon forget it cause you have other things to worry about.

I know it's hard but nothing is simple in life especially in making friends as there are different kind of people and how they behave. Hope you find friendly people to befriend here and real life too! (●´∀｀●)
suchentao #2
hi! you wouldn't think people read blogs but they do! I'm one of them. Hello there~
I'm totally socially awkward as well. But then when I'm here, everyone has the same interest mostly. There will be something to talk about! Which is cool. I don't have to look for ice breaker questions to ask. lol.

making friends is... understanding how you want to be approached.
How do you want people to approach you? And that's a good way to determine how to start a friendship :D
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