Warning: This post will contain A LOT OF cursing and me being pissed off bcs of some unimportant things.

Ok so I've been in a fandom *cough* army *cough* for a while and I got a lot of comments abt me not being a real fan from those people in that fandom. Now, I'm not the kind of person who gets offended easily nor do I get pissed off bcs of stupid things, but for 6 WHOLE ING MONTHS I and a lot others get bullied from the "fans" in this fandom for STUPID AND UNIMPORTANT REASONS! Here are some things I often get from these people:

Them: to how many M/Vs have you cried? What? None? YOU HAVE NO FEELINNGS AND YOU'RE NOT A REAL ARMY

Me: Hmm I don't really like spring day and no from them. Them: whaaaat? You don't like 2 songs? YOU'RE NOT A REAL ARMY

Them: what? You have an other opinion with what opa said? THEY ARE ALWAYS RIGHT AND THEY ARE OLDER AND MORE EXPERIENCED THAN YOU SO WHY DONT YOU SHUT UP FAKE ARMY? (ok maybe I overdo it here but I swear I heard something like that from someone) 

Them: you read Fanfiction? You know thats disgusting, you can't just put these people together like that, what are they? your dolls to play with? 

Them: I'm a real fan bcs I don't care about how they look like, bcs I know them better than ANYONE and I know that they have beautiful souls! I totally deserve them! 

Them: you say it's ok for them to have a girlfriend? Can't you see that they would betray us like that? 

Ok let me get somethings straight:

WHO THE ARE YOU TO TELL ME IF I'M A FAN OR NOT? I don't remember you being elected the fandom queen/king.

Yea I haven't cried to their M/Vs. SO? JUST BCS I'M NOT EMOTIONAL LIKE YOU ARE DOESN'T AUTOMATICALLY MEAN I'M NOT A ING FAN.

YES I DONT LIKE ALL OF THEIR SONGS BUT THAT IS BCS OF THE MUSIC GENRE I LIKE. I'M MORE INTO FAST SONGS OK? AND I'M PRETTY SURE THAT THEY THEMSELFS DONT LIKE EVERY ING SONG THEY PRODUCED.

Yes I have an opposite opinion abt something they said. But that is called BEING A HUMAN BEING! What am I? A dog that will agree with whatever the "masters" say? 

YES I ING LOVE FANFICTION SO? I DONT FORCE THEM TO COME TOGETHER NOR DID I PLAY WITH THEM LIKE THEY ARE DOLLS! I JUST LOVE READING STORIES WHERE MY IDOLS LOVE EACH OTHER THE WAY I LOVE THEM! YOU DON'T LIKE IT? THEN DONT ING READ IT! NO ONE FORCED YOU TO!

How the hell do you know that whatever they show on the camera is true and not just an act? I'm not saying that everything is a lie, but you never know right? SO IF YOU DON'T KNOW THEM PERSONALLY THEN DONT ING BRAG ABT KNOWING THEM OK? And no you don't deserve them.

You know that your idols are people too right? THEY CAN DATE ANYONE WITHOUT ASKING YOU OK? YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO TELL THEM WHO THEY'RE GOING TO DATE WITH OR NOT.

Look this is not just abt army. I'm very well aware that in every fandom there are these crazy fans. I got pissed off not bcs they said those things to me. I'm confident enough so I don't get sad over something like that. But I met people who are not that confident, who started feeling really bad and crying just bcs of that reason. What's your opinion abt this? Have you ever experienced something like that? Be sure to write it in the comments.

And to those fans who are totally obsessed and think that they can judge others, you. It's ok to be obsessed with something (I myself get obsessed with some things) but till one level. When you get so much into something that you're starting to think you have the right to judge others, then the barrier is crossed. Just think this: What do you think your idols would say if they saw you being totally obsessed with them and trashing others fans? Do you really think they'd congratulate you? Do you really think they'd be proud of you? Just stop and think for a second:

Who is the real fan here?