I'm going to confess to my crush

Hey everyone,although I don't know each and everyone of you personally ,I would like to tell you what I am going to do tomorrow night.

I AM GOING TO CONFESS TO MY CRUSH

Yep,It's actually my first time.You know,confessing to someone I like and I am actually quite nervous.

So,I've liked him since September 2014 till today that is 16 April 2017.I heard from others that he already know I like him.But,I thought that he should know I like him from ME.We don't text each other THAT much,but I can say in texts,we seem to be really comfortable with eachother.We uaually make lots of jokes.

I would sometimes catch him looking at me but you know,I don't think he'll like me.I have this diary where I make entries and in every single page his name is in it.

When I confess should I tell him that his name is in every page of my diary?

I sometimes take pictures of him secretly and I have this straw which he used plus the wrapper of the chocolate he ate 2 years ago and it's still in the back of my diary.Hehe.

Should I tell my crush about the pictures with the reason"becos I won't get to see you everyday and I want pictures of you which none will have" amd send him the pictures I took and the wrapper and straws too?

Should I tell him how long I liked him?Should I tell him that I will be moving on and try not to like him anymore?

Some of my friends told me to confess in a kind of joking,funny way so that it wouldn't be too awkward and if it's kind of in a funny way,it will help set the mood?Should I do that?But how?

Should I ask him to HONESTLY tell me how he feels about me?And also how he feels towards me liking him?

Should I tell him how I started falling for him?And tell him what I like abbout him?

Should I tell him the things I do for him?Like,when I secretly entered their class during recess while no one is there and arrange his messy books on his desk?

Should I ask him how he knew about me liking him?And how he felt?

When I start to confess to him,should I say "Can I tell you something?" Or "Want to know something?"

And after that ,should I say "This is my first time doing it,but,I really like you"..?Or leave that out?

Should I add like a laughing emoji along the way,like,to lighten the mood?

How should I end it?"I'll try not to like you again" or anyother thing of that sort?

By the way,I specifically chose this date because his and my birthdate is both on a 17 and I decided to confess this month (April) because Hunhan month and also EXO's anniversary month.And the year 2017 because birth date..*^O^*

I am freaking out right now.Like,I am about to confeass to my long time crush.Pleaae,help me out.Like,the DO's and DONT's.And what I should say?

Oh.And also,he dosen't have any girlfriend.His cousin told me.

He loves soccer,anime and to me his personality is like Sehun's.He has a cold aura but he can be really cute.

THANK YOU FOR READING THIS REALLY LONGGG BLOG BUT I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP.

 

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Evak_1234 #1
I wish I have the guts to confess to my crush too
BlingBlingMaknae #2
I dont know. Maybe because I do believe in the "guys pursue, girls pick from those pursuers" or "just let happen" methods, I do not quite know what exactly to say. I can send subtle hints but i wont say anything unless im confronted lol. Besides i think youre too young for this and that you should study first and do something dat will make u a complete person so u be capable of loving someone fully already but okay it is ur decision in the end

But hmm. A Sehun kind of guy? OMG THATS HARD
okay little cutie..first of all never tell hin about the straw, the wrapper and the pictures. He may see u as obsessive. Second, I dont know if i'll get hate bc of this. Facing over text IN MY OPINION is cowardly. Better not confess anything than telling ur feelings over text. Thats crap. In a society where everything is about machines, try to be different. Make a love letter! Thats a lot better than confessing over text. And if i am u, perhaps the content of my letter is just some thank u letter bc he made me happy and feel emotions in those 2 years and that i am happy in whatever he wants to do with his life. Tell him how beautiful he is and maybe put a lil poem or song lyrics there
But honestly, is it just a crush or love? Ponder about it. Why confess if u arent sure about. In my case, i shall onfess when i love someone, not have a crush. There is a big diff between those 2. Loving is being happy for him, either if he chooses u, likes u back or whatever. And, r u even ready for a relationship if ever he says he likes u back? R u ready for the heartbreak if he doesnt like u and starts avoiding u or ure friendzoned?

//pats ure head. Sigh. If youre life is just a fic where Han confesses to Hun and they become together then it is a lot easier
KawaiiePumpii #3
OMG DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE STRAW WRAPPERS OR PICTURES OR SWEET WRAPPER, it'd seem a bit tooooo obsessive. If he says yes, then go ahead and tell him and obsess over him all ya want ^^b. Not when ur confessing okay??
EXO12nat #4
Okay so, first of all, how old are you? Some of the things you wrote here give off the feeling you are young. For example the wrapper and the straw you have that were his - it either shows obsession or a young mindset, but I'm not judging. I really have no intentions offending you, and if I do, I'm sorry.
Second, are you planning to confess face to face or through text? Failed to un which one you meant here. I've never done that because the last time I liked someone that much I was too shy and too insecure to confess, but I'm a different person now. I would have had the courage to do that now, if there was a person to confess to. Honestly I think telling him about the pictures would creep him out... so I suggest to leave that out. I also don't think you should "try and not like him anymore" because who knows? Maybe he likes you back and something can work out, so don't tell him that. If you confess face to face, "can I tell you something?" sounds like a good start. I wouldn't ask about whether he knows you liking him or not. If he wants to let you know that he already knew, he'll tell you. Maybe you can ask that later when the conversation goes. Definitely don't tell him about you writing about him in your diary, okay? ^^" Don't you think it's embarrassing for the both of you?
Long story short, I would make it simple and heartfelt. And preferably face to face.
Good luck, and if you'd like to talk, you are welcome.
luluhanmuah #5
I think you should ask him how he knows about you liking him and from his answers you either confess to him directly or you don't...does he ever give you the slightest hint that he may also like you
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