So, one thing is for sure. I'm fabulous.

I've known that since I dubbed myself the queen of universe.

lol

I DO NOT need people to tell me so that I know

Guess what? I'm fully aware of it. I'm talented, pretty and oh - getting money at such a quick rate.

I'm perfect.

(obviously not but  please bear with my heavy sarcasm, another flaw of mine)

Now, what BOTHERS me to a point of boiling from anger  is when people feel the need to tell me. That I'm petty, that my work is good. (and under people I mean men lol. Not the eonnies I look up to or writers I work with). Look. I KNOW. and guess what. I don't care. (I mean, okay, honest compliment on my writing is good. but you get what i mean. Wasn't botn to get my . 

what got me so angry? 

men.

(wow that was very obvious)

so to tell the proper story (decided not to screenshot to protect identities)

UNDER THE TAB FOR TALKING ABOUT BUSINESS), guy proceeds to ask about me. I played along a bit - in my usual 'btw Idc about you - style most guys got from me when not on the proper platform (I'm a freelancer, a businesswoman, not a , bud), hoping he would get the memo. I mean seriously when he 'offers' I go 'you'd see how that would go huh' and then silence when he actually attempts it. THIS USUALLY WORKS with most guys, acting as ALOOF as it is physically possible without being there. I did answer how old I was which was my fault buttt I'm fairly sure it's on my profile. Aaaand facebook which I'm afraid he can track me down on lol. (my name is needed for writing projects and I have no alias yet) So I sort of feel like replying to these with false info would be useless. 

I literally just got asked for my email like 'and what's your email weecantalk' or something like that. Now THAT'S where I draw the line. I finished the request finally and from now on I HAVE NO connection to this person (...other than how he can still cancel his order lol) I am going to screenshot everything just in case. 

Seriously I feel grossed out AND NOT because of what he tried. Honestly, if he tried on tinder or facebook I would just shrug and say 'yea, had it comin' for some time'

BUT AS A PROFESSIONAL (OR at least wannabee) I do NOT see the point behind getting talked to this way. Would he go and do the same to a male? NOPE. Would I go and write to any pretty guy I like that sold me something NO. Getting to know each other through a platform like this is FINE. Of course it is. But there's a limit to small talk and jpking around and asking someone ..things. inapporpriate things.

Look, we all know I'm no LADY. If anything I'm as far as one as possible. I'm silly, my humour is dirty and I'm just plain gooofy. But. Seriously bros. THIS.NEEDS.TO.STOP. Just because you find someone attractive, you don't ask them to - especially when they aren't really in a position to say no. This was only my 10th sale (despite having 14 ongoing and a bunch that I'm still getting) AND IT WOULD SHOW badly. It would knock me to the ground. 

on the other hand, you will see me as a writer of a book on amazon :D

If anyone is on fiverr or any other freelancing website, OR any other place where this is NOT appropriate, feel free to speak up. I may want to come in contact with ya'll (..I happen to be writing a book on a similar theme so why not use my ty experience as a topic LOL.) 

#thequeenstrikesback

(if you want to share this, or blog about the topic, tell me and I'd love to comment on the blog and so on. Of course there's more to the story but I needed to rant or I would ahve exploded lol)