I need help!!!

Hello guys... uhm...

i know it's so strange to blog about this but... I really need advice:(

I've got a friend, and she's a sasaeng.

She mostly loves B.A.P's Daehyun, she literally found out his phone number and also the phone numbers of the Twice members, of Super Junior members, BTS and so on and so on, BUT when she calls them, they never pick up, so I think it's all just an imagination. 

I really liked her, we were very close, then she started lying to me, saying that she wrote with B.A.P's manager, phoning BTS' Jimin at his birthday, phoning with Daehyun at night and so on, and I couldn't believe her anymore and I started slowly disliking her, bc what I hate most on people is when they are not being honest with me.

Then suddenly after a few months she started sharing phone numbers with me, telling me to call them, to talk to them and so on... I did never call, I was sure it was just a joke, some fan that mucked on others, I never called. 

 

I seriously HATE sasaeings! But on the other side I want to help them, because stalking os a serious problem. 

 

There are lots of sasaengs, recently I've read of Rion, that stalker that tells Suho to her...

 

I know it sounds hella childish, but I feel so pressured right now. I feel so bad because I want our beloved Idols to be able to have rights and privaticy too, but I can't protect them from fans like Rion or my friend...

I don't even know if I want to be friends with her anymore... She's such a funny person, but then she reveals her real selfish self amd you wamt to throw up everytime you see her, but I want to know what she's gonna do next bc I'm scared for our idols... She's going to travel to Korea (she can't even speak Hangul) and I don't want her to! I want her to stay where she is, not able to do anything to our Idols!

 

please anyone, can anyone tell me what to do? I feel so bad and sad and I don't knwo what to do, what to think and how to react...ㅜㅜㅜㅜㅜㅜ

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illyasah #1
First of all Hanguel is their writing. Korean is the language.
Second. When it comes down to people like her you just gotta be straight and tell them its down right wrong and rude. Your disturbing their privacy etc.... And stuff like that. Now if she didn't have their number (idk if she really does or not) but she still stalked them somehow then you can sugar coat what you wanna say. But traveling their to go stalk is too far. FIGHTING!
Jeniiin
#2
you can try to turn her off from the idea of travelling? like make kpop or korea sound not interesting? drive her attention away maybe?