Lets Talk: Socially Awkward

Hello~ 

 

And yes, as the title suggests.

But i'm not really sure if its what it should be called, but i guess its safe to say?

Im socially awkward.

Like, when i talk on phone with people idont know (i.e: customer service, and other people) my hand went cold and it shook

I even got my hands shaking everytime i talk to a new person

But anyways, have anyone ever had the same thing happened to them?

 

*ANYWAYS i found some beautiful words lately and i just love them ;;

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Unknown_Writer96 #1
Oh I totally understand you cause I never pick calls which are from a unknown number, afraid to talk to strangers.
There was a time when people called me extrovert but after entering the college I don't really feel like talking to anyone. So i prefer to be alone and I'm socially awkward.
MissMinew #2
I used to get so nervous that I would rather fake a call than actually call. I would stammer so bad it became almost difficult to hear what I was saying so that just made everything worse.

But it really does work with practice. I still hate calling strangers but at least I can do it without wanting to fake it.

It's a common thing though but it could also be social anxiety. I suppose it's up to you to figure out if there's more to it or if it's just awkwardness when calling strangers and/or officials.
loveCloud #3
I am! I guess? I mean, it's okay for me to talk online. But just with typed messages. Voice calls and video calls are no-no. And when in person, I really can't speak. I tend to be shy and awkward. Is that it? Socially awkward?
dunno7 #4
I personally have gone through some instances of social awkwardness, although i dont think i am socially awkward or anxious.
I think that we all have those shy moments in which we dont really like personal confronatation and having to talk to someone, of course some of us sadly have it worse than just being shy. I personally have a friend who suffers from social anxiety disorder. And whenever she feels bad she would whisper thzt she feels sad as a cue for me to take her a way she uses sad because thzts literally the acronym for Social Anxiety Disorder. At the beginning, as ignorant as this may seem, i couldnt understand how someone would be scared to talk to peoplr because i have always been the loud type of peoplr and when i assissted to one her attacks i realized how bad it actually is. I am rambeling lol. But anyways, we all have some sort of social anxiety but if u dont fight it and just succomb to it, it may stay with you forever and thats what me and my friend have been doing for the past two years. It's hard battle but its worth it.
sleepingprince #5
I sort of dislike answering phone calls except from my family members.
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