Some - friendship or is it something more?

Hello!

Have you ever been in the situation where you find someone you are interested in be it just a small crush or developing feelings for someone and you are almost certain (or you convince yourself) that they return your feelings.

I am sure you did at least at some point right? 

This happened to me in my third year of highschool. I met this guy as part of a kind of blind date for a dance at our school. We met for the first time officially that day and we hit it off in a quiet and cute type of way. And after the dance we kept in contact every single day and he would ask me how about my day and so on and we talked about so many things for several months. But one day it just stopped but it wasn't like he was ignoring me. Just that he wasn't fully interested. But then I got over it. But when a met him again about half a year later at a friends birthday party he had brought me a gift. It was something that I had said I wanted and was something that was on my bucket list. So I was surprised because I didn't know what it meant at all? Did he buy it for me because he remembered I really wanted one? And why would he remember a random conversation if it didn't mean much to him? So he had to think something right???

 

What do you guys think?

 

To be continued.

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somtingwong
#1
Hmm, sounds like fate to me. Tbh I think he maybe just did it based on his character. There are those (including myself) that tend to care about the little stuff about people rather than the oblivious ones, that way people are much more likely to be happy for being kind of "acknowledged" and "seen". That, may sometimes come out as flirting or affection to the one receiving the treatment and end up feeling not so great after realising that he/she acts that way with everybody else.
Belleylove
#2
Ooooh girl get it! If it is not him returning feelings, then he may just be curious, but gifts usually mean they are interested in you (know from experience :P), or he is just a REALLY nice person. Good luck, Fighting!
ToxicVixen #3
i have never been in a relationship before and all my crush turned out to be a total and i just wish i had your relationship. Well, i think its a some relationship because nothing is going on between the two of you but there is the fluttery moments . He might do that to make you go back to him hahahahhaha. gonna agree with Princess_lee because that totally makes sense. Male are often scared of rejection or scared of getting friendzoned
Princess_lee #4
I'm no relationship expert, but he may have feelings for you, but is too scared of rejection that's why he stopped before he can't get himself out. Because honestly, if a guy doesn't care/interest about you, they wouldn't bother remembering little details. So he may have a crush on you, it's just that he may thinks that either you're out of his league or another reason that is stopping him is because of rejection. O u O