Im never gonna be happy with anyone, are I?

Hey guys I'm just a little bummed out... Recently I've been seeing Kpop idols and celebs hooking up...then it makes me think about John and other people I know around me...I only know a fair few singles, myself included. I know I'm not even thirty yet but , I just know I'm going to be alone forever. I guess I'm not that pretty and whatnot... :( everyone I end up liking is either taken or gay...Its making me really sad and don't tell me to enjoy being single, like, who on earth really does enjoy being single? I don't know honor who does really and If u do than your lucky! Lol So yeah sorry to bother u guys I'm just sad about stuff, and yeah. I'll try to post up another update soon! Stay tuned & SARANGHAE!!! P.s: John was really nice at the dance for work, he kept asking me if I was gonna dance and wanted to know if I already ate, lol, why is he so sweet? AHHHH I can't take his cuteness, but I know he be off limits so I try not to be too friendly, #foreveralone

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Gennisisluvu #1
Hi I am soooooooooo sorry it took me so long to txt u back plz forgive ::>_<::
LeoDeadhead #2
Don't worry about it ^^ you'll find that special someone someday ^D^
kimchijima
#3
i've been so inactive here lately, but oh god. no, you're not "not that pretty and whatnot". you're an amazing person, who deserves to be amazingly loved. yes, being single isn't exactly the great life. at some point of being single, you want to be in a relationship; you'd want to hold hands with someone, you'd want to take that person out to a place you've went to, you want the thrill of it. though, at the same, sometimes, people in relationships also want to be single; to be free of this anxiety of someone capturing the eyes of who's yours, to have a peaceful life of only dealing with your own bs, and not that of another person's. point is, it's okay to be single, and you should enjoy it's pros while you still can. at the time, yes, it's hard, especially with the people you associate yourself with (korean idols included) are all hooking up. i've been there before. all of my friends had significant others and i was the odd one out, but it was still okay, because i wasn't lonely since i knew i had someone out there, and all i needed to do was be patient (also, my friends and i stay true to the "bros before hoes" bro-code). and i did. i had someone out there, and i found him, least when i expected him. it wasn't like those miracle meetings you'd imagine; walking in sephora, buying products, bumping into a cute guy and suddenly magic sparks appears. it was just a regular meeting of another person that i merely thought would be a simple friend, maybe a friend i'd learn to confide in and share my worries and struggles, but just a friend no less, but then nooo, i was wrong. nope. he was my significant other and though i didn't know it was him like others do at first, i know i'd never let go now. point to all of this? just be happy. don't think about getting yourself a partner like it's a must, and don't limit yourself to just your reality (i do some roleplaying, and though i am currently on hiatus due to national exams, i met him in the roleplay agency i was at last (+)
Kanasaki #4
I am happy to be single truthfully. I admit I used to want to be in a relationship, but then after a while it's either I end up with a one sided or the person liked me back but either refused to admit it or just too shy to admit his feelings torwards me. I guess I start to love being single after one incident that made me loose interest in being in a relationship. During that time I hated myself for letting that happen but I learn in the end that even though that a few of my friends had ended their friendships with me because of a guy, I realize that they aren't true friends. All I'm trying to say is that we all have our ups and downs and our own point of views of seeing things but try to enjoy life for now treat yourself more to something nice don't focus on what someone is doing to you too much. If you are meant to be with someone they will eventually come after you. You don't have to stress about it too much it will only make you too overwhelm and lead you to think a lot. I seriously hate thinking a lot because it would leads to stress and that would lead to having white hair. I hate having white hair I'm happy that I only have it once and it's only one strand throughout my 22 years. So please try to enjoy your life as it is now and think about everything later when the right time comes you have a long future ahead of you. You only live once so make it worth the living. Good luck, have fun, and don't forget to always keep a smile on. *(=^_^=)* HWAIGHTING!!!!!!!!!!!
ChaeSeoul
#5
Just switch areas! When you're old enough move away from where you are and you'll find someone! Trust!^^
Wonachan
#6
Lets keep searching for our other hard...stay positive :)
2202trtlpwr #7
When my mom would go for a walk, she would bring back change she had found. There were days when she came home with a couple dollars in change, and we would ask how she found all those coins, and she would respond that she didn't, they called out to her.
So one day I'm walking around the neighborhood and I'm scanning for change and I can't seem to find any, and just as I'm about to call it quits, there's a shiny dime on the side of the road. The point of the story is don't freak out yet because u haven't found your quarter yet, you just gotta let it call out to you. After enough walking your bound to find someone.
PhoenixBear #8
If you are alone, join my single squad, i got you fam, you alone we alone together. I am just saying that but i believe you will find someone, i havent yet so we are in this together.
Tae_Yeon_Kim
#9
Don't be sad.
There's someone out there for you.
But, from my pov, it looks like John like you. ><

Anyway, i just wanna tell you that every girls or women is beautiful. It's just you who keep thinking that you're not beautiful.

Your Mr.Right is waiting for you. Don't give up Chingu! ><
Hani_Kookie
#10
i am gonna be 100% honest here, there are billions of people on earth and I believe everyone has a soulmate out there that they have yet to find. If you seriously think you are gonna be forever alone you can always ask your parents or sister to set you up with a guy they think will suit you. If that doesn't work, you could always try one of those dating sites, I know a couple who met on a dating site and seem very happy together. Stay positive and try to talk to guys other than John because it seems like you still really like him.
yeyeyee #11
There r 7 billions people on this earth and of course there is always one who is special just for u and each of us ❤