Stop it!!! (Read first, judge me later)

This isn't the first time that I'm going to speak about fanclubs hating another fanclub.
Before you judge me please read this first.

Tell me honestly, do you think those idols are perfect?

I don't think so, they're human, they make mistakes, they get hurt, they feel fear, they get angry. They are not perfect because if they are then they are not human, they'd be gods which I'm pretty sure they aren't. The sole existence of the hate between fandoms is a reminder of just how low a lot of people are willing to go to. If someone is that low, do some of us really need to stoop as low and answer back the same way? Can we just ignore them and let the hating pass? Surely they are just people with nothing better to do, attention if you want to call them. If we, as fans, really want to solve a problem caused by another there are more ways than one, there is no need to declare an open fire.

Are we forgetting that these idols are all in the same industry? They are thriving pretty much the same way no matter which company they are from. Sure some are more successful than another but can we just support it and not ruin their temporary fame? These idols won't be living forever, soon their fame will fade and another will take their place. That's just how the entertainment industry goes and we can't do anything about. Fame only lasts for so long before it fades.

Now if you have crab mentality and want to pull down everyone that rises before you then I pity you, grow up, there are better things to do in life than just pulling down everyone. Or I got a better idea, why not try to work hard and rise up yourself? Everyone will have their turn to rise to fame, some sooner and others later, there's just nothing we can do about it. No matter how much hate we, as a fandom, put on another group, there's just ANSOLUTELY NOTHING we can do about it.

Fandom members, no matter which hates another fandom with a passion, a lot of times, the groups supported by a specific fandom gets the hate because of their fans. If you hate something that a fandom member did then don't generalize them, or at least don't put the blame on the idols. Those idols don't have complete control over their fandom members, it's not like they get to have a heart to heart talk with each member, right?

In the end the root of all these hate is ENVY, is it? That's just it, right? One group is rising, the other is falling behind and the fandoms just can't accept it thinking their group is perfect and the others aren't. They're not perfect, let's not forget that, they will NEVER BE PERFECT. No one exists as a perfect being.

Can we just coexist peacefully? Is it really that hard? Surely there are a lot of ways if we really want it to happen, right? No group or person for that matter deserves the hatred, no matter what they do.

I'm not a saint, of course I hated someone before. You can call me a hypocrite but if someone tells you that you and your family look like a bunch of rags, surely you'll hate that person, right? Because I did, I hated the person who said that, I hated his sole existence but I soon realized that declaring war against that person just wasted a whole lot of my time. I hated a lot of people before but I realized hating someone for so long just wasted my efforts and energy. It's okay to hate, its part of human nature, but to hate with a deep passion and for so long when the person didn't do anything personal is just childish and completely immature.

I understand that fandom members take almost everything personally and I'm sorry but that needs to stop, if something doesn't involve us as an individual then we have no concern about it. It's one thing to defend the idols we support, and another to declare war with another fandom. These idols are coexisting, some even friends despite the competition in the industry, so can we just do the same?

I am proud to say that I am a multifandom member. Name it, I might be a member of it.

 

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