This was originally a Valentine's Q&A thing but other than my birth I've pretty much been late to everything so-

I'm been hella busy but today my schedule suddenly parted like the Red Sea so here I am.

Tagged by emchan, who is mom and probably the low key Jesus that managed to part that Red Sea schedule of mine (u da best <3)

Tagging mylittleemo, HikariisJaejj, Crush1205, ladycatcvx, and ilikestars (even doe mom already tagged u this is rEVENGE I'M STILL NOT DONE WITH THAT SONG TAG GDI)

p.s. this will be kinda boring as the most drama i've had in my life is running out of toilet paper in the bathroom when there's no one home to get me more so feel free to leave whenever lol

 

1.  Do you have a crush at the moment?

I already know what direction this Q&A is gonna take because the first thing that popped into my head was this:

But no, no crush. Every once in a while I look at one of my friends and wonder what it'd be like to like them like them then I get this weird look on my face because I can't imagine that at all.

I'm an inexperienced fetus send help.

 

2.  Have you ever been deeply in love?

Nah I'm slow (like Internet Explorer slow) in that whole relationship/love department so the deepest my emotions get are crying over animes and sentimental birthday cards LMAO

 

3.  Longest relationship you’ve ever been in?

Have been in a loving relationship with my bed since the day I was born <3

Other than that none. What is this relationship you speak of?

 

4.  Have you ever changed for someone?

My mom usually tells me that it's not normal to wear pajamas the entire weekend but even then I don't change.

Lol jk, um I guess I wouldn't change in the sense that I'd act like someone I'm not. I think I'm pretty chill (although my procrastination skills are far too advanced) and if I ever did change, it'd be to better myself, for myself. But to answer the question, no I haven't.

 

5.  How is your relationship with your ex?

Does not compute @_@

 

6.  Have you ever been cheated on?

I say no, but no as in there was nO ONE //goes off to blanket burrito

 

7.  Have you ever cheated?

Nope nope.

 

8.  Would you date someone who’s well known for cheating?

I had a friend who stayed with her bf despite getting cheated on several times but I think they're back together again (he moved to VA at one point). That was kind of irrelevant but I guess my point is if you're infamous for cheating I better have some deep trust in the person before I consider them. I know that some people may find themselves "caught up in the moment" and regret their choice in the aftermath but if you find yourself caught in that damn moment multiple times in a relationship and don't feel very guilty about it you best be praying for a partner nice enough not to kick your when they find out.

 

9.  What’s the most important part of a relationship?

Balance. Not like the I pay for this you pay for that kind of balance but a balance where the effort the people put into the relationship is going both ways and not some soul unhealthy relationship. Finding middle ground and compromise is also a part of that, but I think having a certain amount of balance will help keep the relationship stable. And cuddles. Unless they're not cuddlers TT^TT

 

10.  Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?

I'm at making decisions so in all honesty I don't know. I guess it would also depend on my age. I feel like at my age, I wouldn't want a suuuuper serious relationship or a casual fling, but rather something in between where I can get a feel of what the hell I'm doing lolol

 

11.  When you are dating someone, do you believe in being on breaks?

Yes but no? I don't even know if I'm even interpreting this right but obviously everyone needs some alone time or just time to themselves so I don't really consider that as a break. It depends on context, things like why the break was taken and stuff. I question on-and-off relationships sometimes, but if it's between two people that truly do like/love each other and the "breaks" aren't serious I'd either tell them to get their sorted out but if not just make a clean break it just doesn't seem worth the stress. Obvs, this is just my opinion, and I am a super fetus in this whole spectrum soooo

 

12.  How many people have you hooked up with?

LOL

 

13.  What’s one thing you regret saying/doing in previous relationships?

Uhhh, no previous relationships to speak of, but for life in general, try not to spend too much time loocking back on the regrets. Just learn from them and keep them as a reminder to give yourself courage in the future ^^

 

14.  What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having ?

Everyone's body matures at different rates and I know people that lost their ity at a pretty young age. That said, I'd say as long as the "kids" about to party it up in the sheets both know what they're doing and feel that they are ready it, I could care less about their procreation parties. BUT THEY SHOULD ALSO BE EDUCATED. EDUCATION IS KIND OF REALLY IMPORTANT. I read this article where a doctor said the girl didn't understand why she got pregnant until she told the doctor that since the birth control pills made her nauseous she had just been feeding them to her boyfriend just-

Please educate yo selves it could save lives and stop idiots from creating them

 

15.  Do you believe in the phrase “age is just a number”?  

Age difference isn't as looked down upon once you're past the twenties, but I think it's not age so much as maturity and mindset. People more than a decade apart tend to have different life goals or simply preferences, making it harder to connect or relate. If you find someone that you can really connect and establish deep bonds with and y'all have a healthy, happy relationship don't let anyone tell you about age or finances or whatnot.

 

16.  Do you believe in love at first sight?

I believe in attraction at first sight. Attraction is what first draws to people to each other, but experiences and bonding is what actual solidifies that attraction into love.

 

17.  Do you believe it’s possible to fall in love on the internet?

Happens to me every time I watch those BuzzFeed food videos- LOL

I wouldn't go as far as calling it love. I mean online friends are common nowadays, but in the case of a relationship it's very easy to deceive or simply hide certain parts of your life. Even if you do go for an online relationship, it lacks a certain attribute to it that you can only get from in-person contact. Again, just what I think.

 

18.  What do you consider a deal-breaker?

If they're unable to respect me, or the people that I hold dear to me. I guess there's more but that's the main one and I can't really think of the others atm.

 

19.  How do you know it’s time to end a relationship?

When both of you have mutually drifted apart and don't do anything about that. Also if it's hurting people both inside and outside of the relationship when it shouldn't. Or if they knowingly have a serious problem (i.e. aggressive behavior, addictions, etc.) but don't try to fix it.

 

20.  Are you currently in a relationship?

With my bed. Other than that, no.

 

21.  Do you think people who have dated can be friends? 

Yeah it might be awkward at first and somethings will definitely have changed, but the only one that can let that affect you is you.

 

22.  Do you think people should date their friends? 

Sure? I mean I think it'd be nice to start out as friends first and get to know each other before going into an official relationship but I'm aware that can lead to misunderstandings too.

 

23.  How many relationships have you had?

None romantice-wise

 

24.  Do you think love can last forever?

Under the right circumstances and with the right people, yes. Although I guess the range of "right" circumstances and "right" people is pretty wide.

 

25.  Do you believe love can conquer all things?

Love by itself cannot. However, love supported by hard work and mutual effort can. If you sit on your thinking that your feelings alone will get you through life, honey I got something to tell you. Nevertheless, I do think it's possible to "conquer all" with other factors thrown in. Although it definitely wouldn't be a walk through the park. Ain't nothing love can do about those douchebags that cut you in line.

 

26.  Would you break up with someone your parents didn’t approve of?

Depends on their reasons. My parents are typically pretty open-minded so as long as I'm not tryna elope with some money grubbing crack addict there's not much they'll disapprove of. As much as I'd like their approval if I felt that there was nothing wrong in my choice in partner I'd simply give them time to see them like I do.

 

27.  If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating, what would it be?

Don't time travel, the paradox is a such a about it. (LOL whoops not dating advice)

 

28.  Do you think long distance relationships can work?

I've seen it work. I've seen it not work. More the latter than the other but it's not impossible.

 

29.  What do you notice first about another person?

I'm not sure why but hair. Definitely hair. Hair can totally change a person's looks and it just puts me at ease to see a lovely person with a hairstyle that complements them nicely. Next I look for are smile and laugh. Then the rest of 'em.

 

30.  Are you straight, bi, gay, or panual?

I have no ing clue lmao. I'm not really interested in the idea of being in a relationship at the moment but I guess straight? I've just never really considered it and have never had the chance to "explore".

 

31.  Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?

Not really? I mean, mental illnesses are not to be taken lightly, but who I end up developing feelings for is my choice. I'd do my best to educate myself so that I can help them when they need it and be for them. It wouldn't bother me in the sense that I'd be ashamed or embarassed of them or anything of the sort, but as their partner I'd want the best for them, and if they aren't part of the self-help train we gun' have a problem.

 

32.  Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?

Nope my oblivious personality naturally repels Grade A s :D

 

33.  Do you want to get married one day?

Probably? At the moment the idea doesn't particularly interest me and whenever my mom brings it up I wrinkle my nose and imagine myself living in a comfy apartment with a fluffy cuddle bud instead but I suppose eventually I'll warm up to the idea.

 

34.  What do you think about getting your partner’s name tattooed?

I ain't tatooing the name of the idiot that would willingly put up with me anywhere on this precious epidermis. Find me a temporary tatoo and I'll put it on my forehead for your birthday or something.

 

35.  Could you be in a relationship without ?

Respect to those who choose to remain abstinent before marriage. To those who stay abstinent after marriage: if there ain't a good reason for this we better be tumbling in those sheets soon.

 

36.  Are you still a ?

I am pure and innocent.

 

37.  What’s more important: looks or personality?

Overall, personality. I won't deny that I pay attention to looks, since that's what I'm introduced to first. But personality is definitely more of the deciding factor later on.

 

38.  Do you enjoy love films?

Nah bruh. If that's all there is the movie you bet I'll be that annoying making loud snarky unnecessary comments the whole time lol

 

39.  Have you ever given/received roses?

Yeah, but it's just a thing my friend does since her club sells rose grams on Valentine's and she's obligated to take part. I'm also really bad with caring for plants so I try to make sure I don't get flowers for the flowers' sake #savealife

 

40.  Have you ever had a Valentine?

Do them little cards from elementary school count? Not a lovey dovey serious Valentine if that's the question. 

 

41.  What’s your idea of a “perfect date”?

I'm a er for amusement parks, especially rollercoasters. If we supah close I'll let you nap with me on my bed #vipaccess

AND FOOD. If you take me out for sushi I will dedicate a shrine to you in my closet and love you forever. Tbh I'm pretty easy to please I can spend hours at a time staring at my ceiling.

 

42.  Have you ever read Romeo and Juliet?

Not of my own accord, I assure you all. English class has some cliche Shakespearen choices.

 

43.  What’s more important: your partner or your friends?

Neither. My partner would go into the friend category and they all mean lots to me and deserve hugs and free food and everything :3

 

44.  Do you consider yourself “romantic”?

I can get sentimental with friends on certain occasions but even then it's usually through a text or a long post on social media. Other than that, not really.

 

45.  Could you imagine dating one of your current friends?

Haha nope not now anyways.

 

46.  Have you ever been friendzoned?

I'm much too lazy to pursue those s.

 

47.  Which “famous couple” is your favorite?

Monday Couple* from Running Man. They're my weakness be gentle.

*They're not an actual couple to be clear. Just a thing on the show that everyone ships.

 

48.  What’s your favorite love song?

I'm a total music so my "favorite" songs have a tendency to change often. Right now I'd say Zion.T's No Makeup, Choix2's Love or Die, and Tori Kelly's Paper Hearts. And Ryeowook's The Little Prince because holy that boi can sing with feels.

I have a suuuuper wide range of song preferences so I listen to practically everything lol

 

49.  Have you ever broken someone’s heart?

Sorta? We weren't really close or anything and I just didn't think I knew him well enough when he asked me out so I panicked and told him my mom was making curry and I wanted food and I think he got the message ;; He still hugs me in the hallways when he sees me though so I try to act cool and make conversation when inside I'm screaming "I'M SORRY FOR CHOOSING FOOD OVER YOU." Not in regret, I just feel bad for hurting/embarassing him in that situation especially since I know he prob had to work up a lot of courage for something like that.

 

50.  If you’re single, why do you think you are?

I'm genuinely not interested in a relationship at the moment. I think I give off those vibes with how I act around people. And because half my peers know me for being capable of sleeping at any given moment. Also what is social interaction pft.

 

51.  Would you rather date someone who’s rich but a douchebag or someone who’s poor but a nice guy?

Is this actually a question I mean come on it'd probably take less time for the nice guy to make some dough before the douchebag learns how big of a jerk he is.

 

52.  Are you good at giving other people advice regarding dating/relationships?

If prompted I can usually give out some decent advice. With most of my friends the biggest thing I have to emphasize for them is to make sure they can love themselves first. How are you gunna love someone else when you can love yourself and all that.

 

53.  Are you jealous of couples when you’re single?

Nah, but I hope they find happiness in each other and all that gross couple stuff ^^

 

54.  How important is it to make a relationship official (e.g. on Facebook)?

Informing close friends is the basics in my opinion. The rest is up to the couple and their preferences. Some just prefer to keep their relationship subtle to avoid the hassle of teasing friends or questions or other things.

 

55.  Would you consider yourself “clingy,” “over-attached,” or “jealous”?

If you got food in your hands you bet I'll be clinging to you til I get a bite. I'm not one for jealousy and more than over-attached I think I just have a rather stong sense of loyalty.

 

56.  Have you ever “destroyed” a relationship?

Nope.

 

57.  Do you think it’s silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?

Consider it? No. Emotions can take us to dark places at the worst of times and they can often be uncontrollable. But giving into that consideration is unacceptable. That relationship could never be worth your precious life. 

 

58.  Are you the “dominant” or the “submissive” one in a relationship?

I have no idea. I feel like I'd be more submissive than dominant because I prefer compromise more than anything and taking the lead seems odd to me.

 

59.  Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner’s birthday or your anniversary?

In all honesty if I was in a relationship I probably would be the person to do that ._.

 

60.  What’s your opinion on open relationships?  

As long as all prties are aware and okay wth the situation they can do whatever the hell they please. Personally, I don't think I would ever agree to one, just because in my opinion it brings in far more conflict than necessary. Those that do engage in an open relationship should be ready to accept the responsibilities and other difficulties that may come with it.

 

61.  What’s more important: your partner or your family?

Everyone is fam nowadays. Ohana means family and family means no one gets left behind or forgotten. Ain't no choice they all important <3

 

62.  How do you define “cheating”?

Emotional or physical/ual infidelity where the cheaty hoe is getting it on with someone(s) other than their official bae. See not cool.

 

63.  Is watching while being in a relationship inappropriate?

Again, up to the couple. Although after looking more into it, I would suggest saving that for your single life since watching does seem to have a more negative affect on relationships than positive. 

 

64.  Do you think Valentine’s Day is overrated?

Everything is overrated nowadays. That doesn't mean we can't celebrate it how we want. Society and its big mouth just needs to stfu if you wanna have a nice romantic date with your significant other you go for it.

 

65.  Would you consider yourself a “cuddler”?

Hell yeah cuddle sesh at my place I have a ton of blankets and a bajillion pillows let's do this

 

This took like waaaaaayyyy longer than I thought it would and now I'm going to go curl in a ball and hum songs from the musical Hamilton to myself. 

Less than three,

PalmerPie