HOW SHLD I DEAL WITH THIS KINDA GUY!! HELPP!! *sobsob*

hey guys!!

i guess frm the tittle of this blog entry could possibly give a hint on like what i'm gonna talk abt..

p/s: AND I SWEAR PLS HELP ME I NEED SOME ADVICES OR COMMENTS OR OR YOUR PERCEPTION OF THIS GUY!!

So, many many months had passed since I first met this guy, he was tht kinda you know a cute guy tht caught my attention when he himself dm me on a social media...

we talk a lot.. and like when i mean a lot, means like we're like almosts a couple.. everyday we wld hv a mini convo.. until.. last week..

and what happened was this, okay let me tell his situation before i tell mine, during the period of getting-to-know each other, several times he did lied to me and i didn't give tht much thought abt it and instd i just let it slides away like srsly bcs i didn't want any like any akwardness between us just bcs of a fight(?)

Okay now my part;  i didnt actually lie like LIE to him. Nvr wld I wanted to, bt I did bcs I didn't want him to be hurt. Like there are such cases like you just dont want to tell yr partner just so he wldn't get moody, like im trying to take care of his feeling right here... right(?) 

Bt he gt all wrong and when he knows it he acted very calm, too calm tht he change to guy i didn't know.. and the days i tried starting a convo he became super idiot, ergh i'm so irritated.. he answered me with a short answers.. like somewhat telling me he didn't want to talk to me and ask me to go away.. i feel tht..

and now i lost hope with him, shld i just break our relationship? and tell me shld i just stay silent and dont start any more convo? pls i really in need of advices T.T

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Moonzy
#1
I'm not sure about what the actual problem is, but I will do my best to help you.
It sounds like he got hurt that you lied to him over something. Depending on the situation, I guess I could see his point on being mad. If you explain why you did it, he may understand.
If he doesn't understand and continues to be mad, then I say leave him alone because if he is going to get mad over something for that long (depending on the situation) he may do that a lot if you guys ACTUALLY date.

So, I would just talk to him one more time and explain yourself.... OR perhaps you can yell at him for acting like a jerk.
If your friendship doesnt get better and he is still mean to you, leave him alone until he is willing to come and talk to you.