[NOW] Haters Gonna Hate, Hate, Hate...
People hating on Tablo for his IQ and history of him studying in Stanford.
Article on VIXX about their visuals.
Taeyang was criticized for his ment and at the same time SM artists are criticzsed for leaving MAMA early.
MAMA was criticized badly.
2ne1 comeback wasn't that welcoming like other think it would be.
Seventeen black ocean.
Eli marriage.
Those are some of the articles I have been reading online on criticism and hates on idols recently.
I have no idea what others are thinking but... Is it even necessary?
Yes people have freedom of speech but... I personally think this is too much.
For MAMA, yes they are biased, every year there would be a lot of complains over this award show and what hurtful is not the award, the artists or the one that make the award show but the fans.
Some glad that their idols are not involved in the award show because of the biasness but some just threw out comments like
"Who cares about trashy award?"
"The award is useless."
Those are just general to give you ideas about the comments, some comments I can't even re-write it.
I mean... at the end of the day, the award is still an award.
Idols get their trophy as a recognition for their hard work and that's it.
If your idols didn't get to take the awards, lets refrain from talking trash about the award because it gonna hurts anyone like the artist or their fandoms if they read your comments.
To keep it simple, lets think it like this, you wouldn't want others to call the award your idol just get a trash wouldn't you?
Next, Eli wedding.
This is one of the issue I really want to talk about.
Kiss Me might feel that I have no right to write this but believe me I'll make this worth the read okay?
He hide his wedding for almost 1 year and reveal it when his wife pregnant.
Do any one feel betrayed by his actions?
Do any one feel hurt for his happiness?
You might say that I am not a Kiss me I don't know how it feels like.
I am a Jonatics (Jonas Brothers fans) and Fei Mi (Fahrenheit fans), what does it have to do with Eli?
Kevin Jonas married and have his first daughter while Jonas Brothers disbands.
Fahrenheit went in hiatus and 2 years later, Wu Chun surprised everyone with a 2 years old daughter.
I know how it feels especially when you talk about Wu Chun.
He kept everything in secret until his book is released.
That time, Nei Nei already like 2 years old and Max is about to born.
Compared to Eli, the betrayal feel is real but I feel betrayed because he hide such a great news with the fans.
In reality, though I am delusional and keep saying I would marry Oppa one day but deep in my heart I know its impossible.
Right now I am happy for all of them for finding happiness for themselves.
It hurt me the most what Eli wrote in instagram and how considerate of him about his company, career and teammates.
He couldn't even have a proper wedding because he scared he'll bring pain to anyone.
Don't you guys feel hurt for him to apologize for having a wife?
Why does he have to feel sorry for making himself happy?
Look at him as a normal man or imagine yourself in his position.
It's your life, why are you apologizing for your own happiness?
Instead feeling hurt by the comments of the antis, I think he'll get hurt more if his fans throw bad comments on his wedding because fans should be more understanding and considerate on everything they are doing.
After Eli and DongHo I believe more and more idols will get into relationship (might be in one now) and get married.
I hope after this the fans would refrain themselves from writing hurtful comments and please wish for your idols happiness and keep supporting them instead of turning your backs and broke all your promises simply because your idols are not single anymore.
I decide to write this because the day will come sooner or later and I can't help but feel sorry to Eli.
Anyway~ Congratulation on your wedding (though its a belated one) and please share your happiness in future.
Who knows he get to be the 1st korean idol to enter Superman returns XD
P/S: This is solely my opinions. Like I said haters gonna keep hating so peace!
*above quote comment are just examples and not taken from anyone.
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