NEED ADVICE

Okay. 

Okay.

So.

Ha can't believe Im going to do this. But lets see. The advice I need is on dating essientally.

My best friend and I, we've known each other since kindergarden but never really talked until Grade 7.

We're in grade 10 and now we're close as ever. And either one of us starting to like each other was bound to happen.

Obviously. It played out like a drama. Im not even going to lie.

We talked about him liking me and since when. 

We walked home holding hands.

I'm unsure of what to feel.

I mean, like LOL Do i want the title. The title being the relationship. He said that he wants me to be sure.

For me I dont mind it but then what's holding me back is that I dont know if I have feels for him or if its just the fact that I do have it but

Im so used to it that I dont even realize.

Does that even make sense.

I don't really know.

He's being really considerate and we're still talking obviously I know that him and I wont ever drift after we did once. 

But family is also a factor here.

My mom, she has serious issues and probably would start hating him although she likes him very much now.

My brother woudl be like wtf you're dating stop.

Its not much approval here and there.

But then other that, I dont know my own feelings.

One of my guy friends said, its not bad to take a risk and fall in love and blah but he also said if you're not ready don't force it.

My girl friend told me that, it's no difference, its just the title that's there.

Which is why I call this ship the Title.

 

The Possibility of a title

 

Any kind of advice or help. Has anyone experienced the same thing xD Or similar or LOL PLEASE xD

 

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_TulipHeart_
#1
I think you should wait for a while, you're only in year 10 meaning that you're about 15, 16 or 17? Also besides- you're family and mom should always come first too seeing as she spent 24 hours giving birth to you (lol- wierd but true right?) and your still young too!! :) you've got a whole world ahead of you to discover before you start a relationship and youre still in school too- espeically in grade 10 you need your full focus on school because of college and 6th form and that stuff.
Before you get a bf, just enjoy the youth life and then maybe a few years later you can start your love adventure :)
Lavenderclouds
#2
Just a thought, but why dont you ask if hes okay with a trial date? Or maybe a couple? If your not sure how you feel about him, go on a couple dates and see if that helps maybe.
As for your family, honestly just ask your parents if you can date. Thats the best thing you could do since hiding a relationship is kinda very disrespectful.
I'm sorry if I didnt help much.