Does friendship ends?

Is it possible that you've created memories together then suddenly they did something that really hurt you and you just can't forget it anymore?

Giving forgiveness is really easy especially they've been your buddies but what if I can't be friends with them anymore?

I had a trauma... and I can't forget it...

Everybody says I should talk to them already and forgive them. I already did and it doesn't bother me anymore...

But I just can't forget it..

Everytime I remember our memories together I also remember the pain, the dissapointment, the tears I shed, the anger, the hatred and it makes me walk one step away from them...

What should I do? I want to move forward already... I want a peace of mind but I can't do it because everybody here always talk about them not me talking to them. Am I bad? I forgive them already but I'm not yet ready to talk to them :(

-K 7/10/2015_Lost

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Snowflake21 #1 Jul 10, 2015 07:12:44

some friendships do end sadly enough.... that is up to you to decide if you want to end it or not.

WarriorBABYz #2 Jul 10, 2015 06:22:36

that's understandable... you aren't bad at all it's completely normal! it's difficult to completely open up to someone again after they've hurt you so much...I've had friendships like that and honestly I found time away from each other helps. I have a friend that I used to ALWAYS get into arguements with and it was so exhausting... each time we talked it out it still burdened me... not because I hadn't forgiven them... but after not talking for a couple months we've become more mature... it's not really possible for me to be as close as I was with them before but it's atleast comfortable now...