Dear College Kids.
Hey college kids (more geared towards upperclassmen college kids),
I was wondering if anyone has ever felt depressed because of college?
Like,
"I wish I studied harder for this class" or "Because I ed up, this should have been my graduating year."
Those two are flooding my mind right now, but the biggest one is "How come I am doing this for my mom and no longer for me?"
My mom use to tell me "Its your choice. You go to school or get a job"
I chose school because it was something I wanted to badly considering my bad high school experience and grades... and then decided to tell her I wanted out recently and she said "No, go to school".
It feels like it's no longer my choice to go to school anymore; its no longer my ambition, it's her wanting me to go to show off to the family, it's HER ambition that is being fueled.
I don't want my education to be paraded around the family, I want it to be a choice that I made and not being told 'You only went cuz your mom made you' because at this moment, that is what is gonna happen.
Even my brother said the same thing when he dropped out of college 'I felt like I was doing this for everyone else but myself'
And it's not like its some BIG thing in my family to go to school. If I do graduate, I'll be the first one to graduate. I mean, I guess that is huge but its not..
What should I do? I wanna continue to go to school and get my degree. How do I get myself back into that motivational state I was in when I first started??
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