Do you think Dreams are signs? HELP!

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So the dream went like this , I swear I remember it like it really happened.  So , likee , I went out to eat with my cousin from minnesota and this guy came with them . And he wanted to sit by us girls , So I was think he wanted to sit with us because he liked my cousins or something , cuz let's be honest here , guys don;t usually like me. So , we were eating and I paid like no attention to him because I was like , "he don't even like me", then later I was doing laundry and i over heard my mom talking to my aunty , and my aunty said that the guy we went out to eat with really liked me and he cried over me and everything and that I didn't like him. So , I felt stupid , So I started talking to him and everything. And he was sweet , he was like perfect , he was HAWT, half hmong and korean, had a car, a job , he was funny , he was never mean to me, he really liked me and he was like overly sweet. And I liked him , but I didn't love him , yenno. So , I told my mom and my other aunty that i was kinda losing feelings , then the next thing i knew , I was getting dressed in hmong clothes for my wedding. And gmy two best friends were there and I was yelling for them to help me , because I was scared and I didn't want to get married. But they were too scared to get in trouble so , they said no. Then we were on our way to his house, and that's when he found out that I was losing feelings and he was sad , So when we got to his house , we were bowing and everything , but when we were bowing , he said he had to go to "work" , but he was really sad and didn't want to be there. So I was bowing alone. And I was crying my off, I swear i could really feel the tears , it felt real. And as i looked up as i was bowing , the guy i used to like and his best friend were there , watching me bow. And I cried even harder , I was yelling out for him to save me , but he walked away. After I was done bowing , that guy and his friend were done eating and they just left. They got into another one of auntie's car ,) , and I sat in the car before they could leave and I was telling her , "take me home , I don't wanna get married." and she felt bad but she couldn't do anything. Then they pushed me out the car and left. After that , my "husband" came back and we finished the wedding. And the elders drove him and I to a hill in the middle of nowhere and they told us wedding stories on how people were forced to get married , and they told us a story about a little girl getting pregnant and that's why they had to get married , I swear I looked at that elders and I was like , "DO I LOOK PREGNANT? NAWH." , And then they shaved us this fat baby girl and we had to go home. And when I got home , uncle came over and ate , And I told him how i didn't want to be married and my dad heard and My dad thought I wanted to get married the entire time and I told him that I didn't and that's just kinda how it ended .
 

I was saddd! It felt so real ! Like , I literally call the guy in my dream , My "husband" , when i talk about it to my friends and them , I be like ,:"My husband" ,OMG , it's so weird , I really feel like it happened and it scared me so badly. And lately , I've been having so many signs , like songs and stuff , quotes that pop out of nowhere, people having the same problem and coming to me for advice. And what scared me the most , is yesterday , my mom and aunty is trying to set me up  with this guy . -_- damn i must be overreacting or something. HELP please . i need advice. like . fr. FIY , This is an hmong wedding , ASian wedding .

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autumntears #1
In our culture, we usually believe that our dreams are actually opposite of our reality(future) so don't worry...^^
Silencedshadow #2
I think I had a similar dream once, I was in a wedding dress ready for the wedding and I was crying because I didn't want to get married. The dream ended before the wedding though, but I know the feeling.
AhSongyi #3
I have many dreams which are almost same as yours!
But I'm not sure..
How I hope my dreams about my.. crush.. will be real TvT
But sometimes.. Dreams can be REAL Cx
msbabyface
#4
I'm Hmong myself and I never have those kind of dreams but I would told you to take precaution when meeting guys in general because dreams does give you signs in the real world. Its best if you ask your parents about your dream and what it mean to them.
Yuyenn
#5
Wow...... That is scary... AMD CREEPY!! XD T^T

I would say, take precaution when you meet new guys.......

And girl, your Hmong? Something to do with Minnesota? Really?! You kidding me? XD I found a new bestie on this site.....