I'm honestly so done (not with AFF don't worry)

You know what? 

I'm done with this . I really am.

I'm tired of getting pissed off about EXO-L did this and EXO-L did that. I'm just done with their at this point, because I'm already past the point of being disgusted. And you know, I'm not going to say SHINee World is the calmest fandom, because even SHINee World, just like any other fandom, has it's problems. No fandom is perfect. But EXO-L you guys just take the ing cake, you know that? I've never encountered a more disgusting fandom and I hope EXO is as disappointed in you as I am, because I've seen the you do. I even saw how EXO left a fansigning event because you wouldn't even listen to them! If you don't even listen to your own faves who the do you listen to?

Honestly, I'm not going to say that SHINee World hasn't done anything to EXO-L other fan complain about them, because I've never witnessed SHINee World doing anything bad to EXO-L. But I've seen more than enough of EXO-L causing for SHINee World and then complaining that:

"Shawols stay the most whining fandom in history. If you can't stand another group being more successful than your faves then spend more time supporting Shinee than looking for everything Exo fans do."

That right there, is a word for word quote of something I read an EXO-L say online. And you see the thing is, I wouldn't be so mad, if it weren't for the fact that SHINee World wouldn't complain about if EXO-L didn't constantly start with the fandom. That is the problem here. And you know what? I don't think most of EXO-L even realizes it.

The most recent problem, that is no longer a rumor and has been proven, is that 3, maybe 4 members of EXO-L went to Music Core, claiming to be Shawols, took pictures videos, and got Shawols banned, for how long, I'm not sure. But do you see what the problem is? I'm not even mad at those fans that did it anymore. They apologized and have been trying to make this right. I'm mad at the EXO-L who continue to defend them and say that it's a lie after it's already been proven and the girls that did it admitted that they were EXO-L. 

Can you understand the problem there?

Don't continue to defend something that's obviously wrong and claim that it's something that's okay to do, because it's not. If SHINee World did something wrong and it was proven that they did, I'm back off and admit defeat, because that's the right thing to do. I wouldn't try to say that it's okay just because I'm a dedicated fan. If I was a true dedicated fan, I wouldn't try to continue making problems.

And the fact that the group's success was even brought into this. This has nothing to do with what group is more successful or not. This is about lying to avoid your group getting in trouble and putting the blame on a fandom that had no involvement in this. 

And you know, EXO doesn't deserve this either. Did you ever stop to think that not only SHINee is affected by what you're doing, but also EXO. Does anyone realize anymore how close SHINee and EXO are? That they're actually friends? That they don't appreciate their fans fighting so much? Do you realize that by doing so much awful , you're giving not only yourselves but also EXO a bad reputation? That people's opinions on the group are also connected to their opinion of the fandom? I've already seen EXO-L switch fandoms to another group, whether its SHINee or not, because they don't want to be connect to a fandom with such a bad reputation? I love EXO's albums, even if I've refused to listen to their recent one, but the reason I've refused is because of EXO-L; and yes, I'll admit that while I do love EXO as a group, I honestly believe that they sound like crap in more of their live performances. However, I'm done. I really am. EXO deserves a better fandom, they really do. And that isn't directed towards the few rational EXO-L that people can actually get along with. I know that not all of EXO-L is bad. However, I really wish that the good in the fandom could for once outweigh the bad.

I'm too tired to continue this damn fanwar. I'm too tired of the constant to even be surprised anymore. 

I'm just done. 

And that doesn't mean that I've given up.

It just means that I'm done paying attention to stupidity.

Bye. 

 

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sushi-mushi
#1
While I agree with you on many parts of your last few blog posts, I do feel slightly hurt seeing all the hate towards EXO Ls. I admit that there are 'EXO Ls' out there who give the fandom a bad name, but while there are those bad "fans", there are so many more good fans, many of whom are shawols themselves. There are those ofc who are spreading rumors and lies doing terrible things and giving shawols bad reputations but I'm not sure what you're achieving by insulting most, if not all exo-ls?

I'm super upset myself at what some exo 'fans' have been doing, but I do want to reiterate that it is honestly just a very small group of exo ls. It really isn't the majority of the fandom trying to things up for SHINee or other groups. I just wish all the fandoms would stop fighting too ><
AffxtedShawol
#2
im just...gonna go watch fluffy 2min videos....disconnect the internet ugh
SiMpLyJustine
#3
Wait could you explain that whole thing with banning shawols? I don't get it.

And god damn it. I really am disgusted with the fandom. Like I've met so many people who can't even call themselves a fan because they don't want to be labeled with those EXO-Ls who ruin the reputation of SHINee. It seriously brings me so much anger that I don't even know if my hatred is even humane anymore.
TaeminieAppa
#4
It has gotten to the point I don't want to see EXO anymore like their fans pisses me off so much I can't even stand them. And I know it's wrong to think like this, but they have made me like this and I can't help it.
TaeminieAppa
#5
*raises hand* here's an Ex-EXO-L who decided to leave EXO and the fandom because she doesn't want to be related to ignorance and delusional fans who doesnt seem to find limits at all.