I feel like such a loner...am I forever alone? :(

Why is it that I'm still single? XD

Okay I apologize for the tittle of this blog, and I should be happy that its Easter, which I am, but
the subject of still being single at this age is really agonizing me to be honest...

Almost everyone around me has someone, and its so annoying to be like the third weel. I do know some single friends but I havent been in the dating game for like 2-3 years, and guys dont barely look at me anymore like they used too...is there something wrong with me?

I havent been updating much because I have been feeling down about this lately.

When will I get to meet my "other half." I mean I am a good person and everyone deserves someone...sometimes I dont even think
I'll end up with anyone because I do think I need to fix some things about myself...

I think I am confident enough and I do love myself. I do think I can be just happy on my own but it just
bothers me that I havent even had ANY dates in the past few years...it just you know.

WHat do you guys think? :( Please help me out if you can!

I always see people having relationship problems and happy ones they always ask me for advice but F**k (excuse my
language) HOW THE HELL DO I KNOW? I NEVER BEEN IN THAT POSITION! LOL sorry about complaining about
my life issues.

You dont even have to answer me I just wanted to rant about my lonliness...yes, that's right, I said
it XD haha.
Whatever.

I love you guys tho!
I'll try to update soon! :)

XOXOXOXO

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AlicetheGreat #1
Hun, the guy of you're dreams is gonna come at you when you least expect it.
So wait for him. I know it to wait but it'll be worth it. Also don't expect to get a man while being all coup up at home cause there aint no hot guys hiding in yo closet. Hun, there is nothing wrong with you.
Guys can be VERY intimated by CONFIDENT and PRETTY women. Trust me, I know ;)
For me, being single for 17 years and counting, I realized that I didn't want a boyfriend at this age. Even though I've had guys confess to me, I rejected them. I realized that I didn't need a guy to make my life complete.
Last thing, I promise ;)
Remember guys are visual creatures, flaunt you're best attributes while being classy not trashy LOL
Go get 'em tiger!!
Lunia-chan #2
I feel you.__. Everyone around me is dating or has some love issues to discuss with me. But I just don't find anyone intresting or somebody that's interested in me and I'm lonely and I just want to find my other half and yep I know how you feel.___.
dzgiirl96 #3
I'm 18 and I have NEVER been in a relationship and I'm happy so don't be sad if no guys look at you anymore. Because if they were looking at you and now they don't, it means you changed and I'm sure you changed for the best, even though we don't talk much together. Don't be sad, and look at the good side of being single, and while you're having fun, someone may be looking at you or having a crush on you, since we all look beautiful when we're happy, okay? Unnie HWAITING ~~
iluvkpop28 #4
Look, I'm sure that you will find your man. I'm a 15 year old girl who was and is still in love with this . He liked me first then i i slowly started to like him back. He stole my first kiss (long peck). Basically he told me a lot of and bull stories!! Now he has a girlfriend. Well ok, we haven't went out together, but if you think about it rips me into pieces. I wouldn't lie but he is a d**k head. Anyways, I thought of sharing you my first experience with a guy (a player I'm guessing?) The thing is, you should be careful. Just don't throw yourself, don't think that you're lonely. ok unni? If you ain't gone have a guy in your life then you got us. Your AFF family :') or at least meee~ xD hahaha! <3 WE LOVE YOU!! And we all do hope that you will find someone! ;)
babyninja #5
I'm seventeen. I had two boyfriends before when I was like fifteen, the first one we only lasted two weeks and the second one, well, we broke up the next day, because of me, I wanted to and I don't regret it because I wanted to spend time with my friends instead of dating, if you feel lonely and think that you need to date it's only because you're not haging out with your friends, I must say that friendship is (in so many ways) a lot better than having a boyfriend, think about it this way the only difference is that you could have either make out or have with your boyfriend but other than that having a relationship is like having a friend, so maybe you don't need a boyfriend because you want to hang out and have fun maybe you just want that physical contact that comes with it. Another thing, if love doesn't come to you, you go and catch it, if you're sitting behind your computer writing posts like this one, you would most likely never get a couple (unless you meet him here and then marry him -which would be really REALLY romantic- ) go out with your friends or by yourself, walking or to the mall and then if you see someone you like go for it, sometimes we need to approach. So, who do you want to be the kind of people who wait for things to happen or the ones who make it happen.
(this is not mine, it was given to me by my bff allyouneedislove, she's jjang)
msbabyface #6
More like you need to ask yourself, why are you still single?
Come on, don't feel lonely because you see others are in a relationship that's clearly making you feel that way and want to be in one. I will suggest that you take your time to find your "other half" because you might not know when he will come. Be happy that you are single. If you don't want to be a third wheel then get out that category before you get drag in even more. Being forever alone, is always a good thing not a bad thing. Just be happy and wait for that some person to come into your life.
Fluffydar #7
Don't stress about it!!!! My cousin is nearly 30 and he hasn't dated anyone like AT ALL!
You'll find that special someone sooner or later, just be patient.
--pockyy #8
I think you shouldn't be stressing over being single.

I mean being in a relationship is great and all but you don't have to be sad unnie.

I mean if it makes you feel better. My cousin is almost the same age as you but she's not married.

That's because she was too focused in school and not really keen on relationship.

Just enjoy life and love -- you will find it. Just stay positive and don't be yourself down in the dumps :3
Taeminnieah #9
You always seem to be hanging on this topic. If you're like that, it will only rush you to make bad decisions.
It differs from person to person, it can come soon or it can come late.
BrightestStarLuhan #10
T~T I feel you
My friends' boyfriends are so cute
My crush is cute too XD but
Never got into a relationship XD kkk
My friends always make me jealous. Tsk tsk... Sigh
Kim1107 #11
hey, same with me here. i'm forever alone too. hahaha :'(
and i know how you feel exactly coz what i experience what you feel now
stormatsea #12
Gurll I totally relate to this post. I personally don't mind being single I just hate the fact everyone around me are either dating or telling me to start most of the time both.
My sister is currently dating and my family is just like your little sister is dating so why aren't you you're the older one. Its seriously so frustrating to have to deal with, like why can't they just understand that I'm fine where I am right now. Not to mention the guys around here are total jerks and I don't even want to bother with them.

But whatever you do don't just settle with whoever comes along. The relationship isn't worth it if both parties aren't totally committed to trying. I'm sure someone will come along though so just hang tight for now. ^_^
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