Her:

Being a good wife is never easy.

Even if you tried to always maintaining the communication  effectively with your spouse, to always giving your best in keeping your romance alive, and to give your all to be your husband's best friend while maintaining your own identity, I have to say it would never be enough.  You need to do more and a lot more. Until, at some points in your life you realized that nothing you can do will enough to make you deserve the title of 'a good wife' to your beloved husband. One you fell in love with and one who managed to make your days colorful.  The man your heart declared to be the one and only in your life.

I did the best I could to make sure everything worked perfectly on my marriage. Our marriage. I kept on trying and worked harder and harder to be the best loving and caring wife for my husband.

Yet, nothing I do was enough.

At first I thought he was just busy with work that required him to work overtime almost everyday and managed to have business trip on weekends and slowly forgetting our important days.

I was hurt and in pain as the loneliness ate me little by little. But I still tried and tried.....again and again, to be a good wife. To believe that everything he did, he did it for me.

Until one day, one night in cold snowy February. One night I prepared especially for him. Home made cakes, his favorite dishes, wine, candles, rose petals in bed, new y lingerie.....to celebrate our 5th Wedding anniversary.

But yet again, the fact rubbed on my face that 'a good wife' title needed lots for sacrifices as well.....including heart ache.

Instead of having the most romantic night with him, I had to sit there. In the cold and hard hospital chair. Waiting worriedly for hours...alone...with my fears when doctors tried to save his life.....and his mistress's life.

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Him:

Be a good husband was all I have trying to be. To give the best efforts and making her happy was the ultimate goal I whole-heartedly trying to achieve.

There was nothing I would not do for her. Because I love her. Because she's my wife. The woman whom I wished to be the mother of my children.

All this time I was pround of myself, that even I was working in entertainment business, well known as one of most respected musician in this country, where countless y and pretty women more than willing to spend one night....even an hour to be with me, yet I was able to honored the vow I made in the name of God that I will love my wife and respect her for as long as live, one my heart declared to be my forever love.

Learning from the mistakes I made in the past, I paid so much attention to our important days. Birthdays, anniversaries, valentine's day, white days....just to make her happy. She usually squelled in delight and rained kisses on my face when I prepared romantic surprises for her every once in a while.

Breakfast in bed, candlelight dinner, weekend on the beach, flowers bouguet ......and I was always ended up push to bed after being kissed senselessly as the reward of my little suprise event.

But its all long gone.

At first I thought she just bored staying home doing nothing. I could totally understand wasting your talent and dedicated your life as a house wife was not as easy as it sounds. Then she started to stayed longer at work, having an unusual business trip on the weekend, and slowly my surprise means nothing to her anymore.

But I love her. I wanted to believe her...until one day, one night in cold snowy February. One night when I decided to cancel all my appointments on the recording company to suprise her. I brought home her favorite cake from her favorite cake shop, painstakingly ordered her favorite flower even if was not on the season...........to celebrate Valentine's day together.

But being 'a good husband' needed so much to sacrifice as well.....including heart ache.

Instead of having the most romantic night with her, I had to sit there. In the cold and hard hospital chair. Waiting worriedly for hours...alone...with my fears when doctors tried to save her life after having a bad car accident in a free way to Jeju.....with her new man.