FRENEMIES

 

 

 

 

 

 

A frenemy is someone you are very close friends with but are your enemies.

You both could be great and happy together sometimes but at the back, you started talking behind them like,

 

"Oh, you know my friend (Naomi for example) Naomi, she has like, a thing for guys that wear spandexs and wears them everyday. She even wore it when we met a few hours ago and its pink."

"That girl I've been talking about, yeah her, she told me she is going to have a party this Saturday and invited me... I am so not going, she doesn't host party that good."

 

Girls mostly have frenemies, every girl has one. (Unlike you have no friends or lives alone with a cat and pie)

I even have one, we've been best (NOT) friends for three years and for that one year, I thought we have a lot in common and do the same thing we like to do. For example, Fan-girling over groups like KPOP or One Direction or YouTubers.

 

But it turns out she pretends to like them in order for us to be very close and show the whole world that we are tight like glue. Which we are not, she even has pictures of the ones I like and would send them to me and talk about them the whole day, I could talk about one thing the whole day unless you are irritating, gullible, oh gullible... I also have a friend who is really believing into stuff really easy, especially RUMORS!

There is one time, we talked about EXO and she loves them so much. I do too.

And they had a comback with the song Overdose, and her fave was Xiumin. I knew about what their hair colours were and saw their photos and stuff. So, at school we kinda talked about it and as usual fan-girl over them. Then I said, "Xiumin's hair now is pink." and she looked at me with a weird face like, " What? No way, its brown silly." and then I told her what I really saw (cause its all over the internet obvi...)

 

I didn't wanna start an argue cause I hate arguing things like this, it will eventually turn into an animal brawl, believe me... You DON'T wanna start those kinds of arguments like your favorite groups new hair, their style and whatsoever. It will be like:

 

You- "OMG, I totes love his hair colour! Their concept is fierce"

Friend- "I totes hate his colour, I love it when it was Orange (O.o ??) and what happen to the badass (or sweet) concept... I don't think I like them anymore."

You- "You don't have to like them because they look badass (or sweet) because thats their original concept, they are still them with different vibe of music."

Friend- "I don't care... I like another group now."

 

That makes me want to shoot myself and my hand will still be alive and shoot her so we can go to heaven, meet each other there and still fight... Or make up and eat a watermelon.

 

So, in short terms... Or words... Just don't be friends with a friend who is an enemy.

Unless, she has a rich family and she takes to you wherever you wanna go, has a hot brother and buys you the most expensives gifts ever. (LOL)

 

 <--- Friends (Frenemies)

 <--- Hot Brothers *dies*

 

Anyway, all in all... Don't be a and stand up for whats best for you! I did and it felt great!

Listen to songs that motivates you and makes you feel happy and great about yourself, sings your heart out in a karaoke bar or on top of a hill and do something that you do best. Ignore es that talk about your favorites cause its your favorite, not theirs. I love eating and fan-girl over some awesome , its my not your U_Uv

 

Also, stay positive and eat. Watch TV, dramas/show and look at old photos of you and laugh at the fun memories.

 

Walk pass by your frenemy and smile at them, it'll make 'em think, "What the hell?" or "Am I that pretty that everyone is complementing inside them?" 

 

Okay, that is it for the random talk~ haha xD 

 

Jung Soojae~ xoxo

(Penguin & Dolphin)