Seriously

(this post is not sugar coated and if I offend anyone, I'm not sorry. And, as a warning, if I see anyone ing about this relationship, I will delete you. This was taken from a FB convo I had with someone. As an EXOtic and Sone, I'm extremely disappointed with a lot of people.)

 

The thing is with supporting an idol is just that, you're supporting an idol. Not a brother, sister, mother, father, best friend, lover, ing stranger in the streets. An idol. You do not know they personally, they will never be more than just an idol. And if you get all pissy because of this idol being in a relationship then you're not supporting that idol. You're trying to run their life. Supporting an idol should stop at that. Support and admiration. It's not love, like these fangirls constantly think. It just isn't. It's admiration for what they stand for. Fans need to realise that yes, you may be slightly saddened that they're in a relationship, but in the end you should support their decisions.

Baekhyun is an adult and he knows what he wants to do to be happy. If being in a relationship with Taeyeon - an idol he adored and eventually became close with due to being in the same company with her - makes him happy, then let him be happy.

Get over your idealised ing ships and support your idol like you're supposed to be ing doing. Baekhyun is not gay, he is not in a realtionship and never will be in a realtionship with Chanyeol. Get the over it.

Yes, it's fun to ship people. I ship Baekyeol too, but face the flipping facts and accept that Baekhyun and Taeyeon are dating.
 
I think the main problem is that the EXO fandom is made of mostly 12 year olds while Sones are a lot older - or at least the ones who have been there from the start are. Baekhyun hasn't been getting much for this, and that's because Sones understand that Taeyeon is like 25 and she's growing up. She's going to get into relationships and eventually get married. And we've accepted that. But EXO are still a young group and the fans are young too. They're not ready to accept that their idols will be moving on with their lives at some point.

You know what's sad?

Directioners act more mature about 1D getting into relationships than EXOtics too. And they're voted one of the worst fandoms. Shows how immature EXOtics are.

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aeterniti
#1
People need to get over themselves, tbh.

Dreaming and fantasizing and writing about something does not make it real. It's fiction. Let the boy date who he wants.
WolfGirl88 #2
I'm a .
I think, as long as I didn't bother others with my decision, everything is good.
I don't ship BaekYeon, IDC if they're real also.
I just don't want to meddle with someone's else decision. Delete me if you think I'm ing.
WolfGirl88 #3
You might want to delete me since I'm a to be honest. IDC if BaekYeon is real but you can't change the immature into some mature fans too.
I think as long as everyone keep with their own decision and didn't bother others with their decision, everything is good.