In light of what’s happened with Kris, EXO and SM I have already stated my view point, which can be read by clicking here. However I feel like this whole thing is being blown way out of proportion.

That being said, if you get offended easily, read anyway, because damn, some of you need a wakeup call.

First things first; why do you as fans think you have a right to know why Kris has decided to file a lawsuit? ‘Cause guess what; you don’t! Ahaha! You don’t have a right to know because you are merely fans; you are not a close friend, lover, family member or even acquaintance for that matter, so you have no right to know an idol’s personal business. So stop whining that you don’t have an answer to why Kris is very possibly leaving.

Secondly; why are a majority of you letting this incident affect your personal lives? I’ve read a tone of things from people not being able to sleep, to not being able to focus on anything and it blows my mind. How does this affect you? Are you the ones who may lose a promising career, money or close friend? No. Are you going through what any of the members, SM or Kris is going through? No. Is all of EXO breaking up? No. And even if they were, it would not be the end of the world.

I know that, for some, Kpop is everything, EXO is everything but to me that screams a problem in itself. I for one do look at Kpop, music in general as an escape, as a somewhat solace, but I don’t see it as the one thing my life depends on. And if you do, I’m not calling you crazy, but I’m saying you should maybe enter counseling, talk to someone, because your favorite Kpop band will grow, separate and eventually pull out of the scene; how far away from now that is, I don’t know. So what will you do then? Will that mean your life is over? No. That’s a part of life; change is a part of life. It’s okay to feel empathy, it’s not okay to let the happenings of other people, whom you have no relation to, have an enormous effect on you, so much so that it’s effecting your ability to function properly.

So just really take a moment to think about it, sit down in silence and ask yourself why you are making such a big deal out of this. Yes, it’s perfectly fine to support Kris, the EXO members and, Hell, even SME if you want; but to say you’re letting it take over your personal life is just too much.  In my opinion you can say you are going to stand strong behind whoever you choose to and support them to the end, however, starting rumors like some of you have is wrong on multiple levels and only adding fuel to the fire.

Thirdly; STOP calling certain people down and making up rumors; ex. EXO bullying Kris. Did you know you can be held liable for your word? Even if it’s just a post on the internet. SM, from the view point of many, has been said to be a company, and maybe it is, maybe it isn’t, but tell me this; have any of you been behind the walls of SME? How about other companies? Just because they don’t talk about it, doesn’t mean it’s not happening. People talk about SME because of all the scandals it’s been through, however, I wonder what people would say if JYP or YG suddenly had a scandal like this; would people believe it?

Probably not, just like the way some people are Hell bent on believing Tao and Chanyeol wouldn’t post something like they did on IG; people believe what they want. And that very fact says enough. But tell me this, where is your proof to all these rumors? I want to see factual evidence.

And I don’t care much about how some are reacting, but with the amount of angry posts toward certain individuals and posts about how much this is affecting you as a fan, it’s getting annoying and a little worrisome. I’ve said what I felt and if you like it or don’t, it can’t be helped, but just know it’s not the end of the world, so some people need to stop acting like it is.