Rant: Relationships

*Deep breath in*

*Deep breath out*

Okay, I am going to remain comepletely calm whilst explaining my reasoning for ranting.

You guys already know about my boyfriend, and you all pretty much know how in love with him I am, so I'm just going to touch on a subject that REALLY pisses me off.

Someone I know (Not going to name names), has a boyfriend, but she also has someone she is supposidly "crushing" on.

Now, let me start first by saying that when you're single, and you have no attachment whatsoever to any type of human being (I don't know your gender prefference, but I'm Bi), it is 100%, perfectly A-okay, to be looking at other guys (and/or girls).

But when you are already in a relationship with someone, andyou suddenly feel feelings for someone else, you cannot, (let me repeat that) CANNOT, be with another person. You're either with that person, or not.

I understand that when you're young, you see a lot of things that catch your attention, but for the love of Loki, STOP LETTING YOUR EYES WANDER.

If you don't want to be with that person, or your drawn to someone else whilst with said person, you need to sit down, and have a serious talk with yourself.

Girl, that's a mess, clean yourself up with a swiffer.

Alright, I'm done now. Carry about with your day guys.

-Kyla<3

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pokopori #1
Being committed doesn't mean you're dead; you're still going to find other people attractive. But being committed DOES mean you don't allow your attraction to fester into something more than a simple appreciation. If it does, a serious reflection on your life is in order. If it means sitting down and talking with your loved one, or making a clean break, you should always stay honest and faithful even if it means the end of your current relationship. So you are right; this girl friend of yours needs to get her together and figure out what she really wants before anyone gets hurt!
NyappyxLove #2
As someone who is engaged and has had this conversation with said fiancé, just because you are in love and commited does not mean you won't find other people attractive, a true test is that you may see someone else (not nessisarily crushing) that is attractive, but as long as you don't pursue it that is natural. I'm not condemning or approving of your friends behavior but just giving my opinion of being in a commited long term relationship.
KawaiiTrash #3
Really? That's kinda sad.. She should really think this over and decide, I'd hate to see someone get hurt..
Exotic_Baby13 #4
She could be a polygamist....
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