Dear EXO fans, 

I get that you love exo, very much and sometimes too much. But, when it comes to love relationships, you just need to stay out of it. It is their loves lifes, not yours. I get it, you love your bias (s) very dearly and you want them to yourself, but let's face the facts...it will never happen. If it does, than it's a 1/100 chance. 

Personally, I ship EXO and SNSD together no matter how hard it is to be watching my bias sehun interact with other girls, but I'm like 50,000,000 miles away from korea and I only watch him from the screen, nothing I could do. I just need to except the fact that I will never be with sehun and let him have other chances with girls who are close to him. 

Like SNSD, F(x), A-Pink, Girls Day. I used to not like them around exo and would get easily offended whenever they interacted together but than I realized, who am I kidding? I'm not in one of those girl groups, how will I get noticed? My bias's don't even know I exist. Hate to break it too ya but EXO doesn't know you exist, if you went to their fansignings, concerts that's ok because they will see you but doesn't mean they will remember you.

EXO needs to be with girls their own age, or 2 years older or younger. I am forever that fan who watches and admirers from afar, most of my friends do that also. We all know that we are hallucinating and will never meet EXO let alone be their girlfriend. Get some sense knocked into your skull and know, that you will forever be just a fan. 

I might sound harsh, but it's the truth. This is how my dad knocks some sense into me, he tells me the truth even though it hurts. I'm doing that right now, my friends are doing great in life and so am I, were finding new people to like and people who are actually around us! Even though I might have a boyfriend, I will always have a place in my heart for sehun, kai, baekhyun and luhan but my real love is gonna be the one im gonna marry. I will forever remain a fangirl and have a crush on them but nothing more, I get over my crushes easily. 

So right now, I am telling you, WAKE UP AND SMELL THE ROSES! Find some other boys out there who are actually your age, talk with friends to get your mind off of exo or just do something instead of stalking them all day. I also knock sense into my friends like this, they hurt but they forgive me afterwards because it is the truth I am speaking. Support, Love and Cherish them but don't stalk them. (Sasaeng fans i'm looking at you)

Please never forget reality, from fantasy. Being EXO's wife or girlfriend is pure fantasy and reality kicks you in the than says "WAKE UP! GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE!". My family also doesn't like me getting to much into k-pop because one day, I will lose myself in it and have it control me. You might not be falling into it now but you will if you continue to hallucinate really bad. 

EXO can actually see the girls groups that perform in SM, JYP, LION, YG and etc. So it's alright if they like them. So now, I watch SNSD and EXO interact with each other and I also ship them with other groups. I'm facing the fact that I will NEVER be with them and that they are forever a crush of mine. 

Hope I didn't offend you too much with the truth.

-sehun-ssi <3