So Junyoung, ZE:A's Leader will be in KBS Love & War Idol Special which have featured Dongjun-Jewelry's Yewon(pt1) , Mblaq's GO & Rainbow's Woori(pt2) and here comes the third part with Junyoung n Girl's Day Yura. for the article:

http://www.allkpop.com/article/2013/08/zeas-junyoung-to-walk-down-the-aisle-with-girls-day-yura-on-love-and-war-2

http://www.dkpopnews.net/2013/08/zeas-junyoung-to-pair-up-with-yura-in.html?utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=twitter

http://www.tenasia.com/archives/68096 (<- has some details on the plot)

apparently, ZE:A again proved to be a favourite with producers, as they're the first to be called the 2nd time for the same show again? :D

 

now, the following will be opinionated article/ranting. feel free to fly out now if you hate naggings from an ahjumma-fan. go out now if you think you can't handle it.

 

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After that article come out...i've seen many reactions, not just from akp mind you. i have my stalkerresearcher nature with ZE:A. haa. just a lil. and i notice some fugly comments. y'know, typical things fangurls say like wanting to kill the girl n bla bla. n lemme say it here, stop it, please. I know some say it for fun or just let out frustration but i feel responsible to shed some light on your gloomy days. I know some of you hold dearly on what ZE:A tell fans....which is why i'm terribly upset when they/Junyoung mentioned that ZE:A'S are ZE:A's wives/girlfriends or something....like come on...i know it sounds sweet n all...but dude should've known better than to fuel delusional fire of fangirls naivety. And okay...i get it, maybe he wants the fans to love them because at that time ZE:A's success rate was worse than now. they had to do anything to get support. i can understand the desperation. but i find the move of saying that is kinda tacky. no, i'm not the kind of fan who would say "OPPAR DIDN'T MEAN ITTTTT" when i didn't know what oppar is thinking for real. so, cut the crap on me n give it to someone else.

That being said....they were young, i'll cut some slack n it's not like they could undo what they've said. But think about it this way...in real life, most of you would have boyfriends n relationships too. so why can't oppars too? If you really believe oppar really mean it when he said the fans are the love of his life....i'd have to say you're probly even more naive than me at the age of five....well, of course i'm not a five-year old anymore...but....you don't say....

And if you really love oppar, shouldn't you be happy for oppar? oppar get work opportunity to showcase his talents n self...n in cases of dating shows...oppars don't easily get to date...so it could be the only opportunity...especially groups who are really nice boys like ZE:A....who doesn't even have nasty secret gossips...(yeah...that's what i got from stalking akp forum on the secret/scandals thread n there were many nasty things about many groups but for ZE:A...nope...well, i'm not sure now cuz i haven't been stalking for a long time now...feel free to update me lol) ZE:A has been keeping clean image/lifestyle n we should applaud them for that. i mean they're human, they can date too if they want. there's really nothing not-clean about it though as fans, i understand that we at least would expect them to be with girls we approve...n deserving them. n not be involved in messy scandals even if they do date. i think there's nothing wrong with such requirements, but judging without knowing is not cool.

I know the need to express sadness...but you're affecting ZE:A's image by saying things like you want to kill the girl or something. if even someone who can try to understand like me, cringe so badly at the remarks....what would the nonfans feel when they see? what about the girls' fans? and what about people who are already looking down on fangirls? why give them more reasons to ridicule you?

And i hope girlgroup fans alike, the fanboys or fangirls of girlgroups don't think you're free from this kinda attitude bcuz you're not. I'm only focusing on ZE:A fans because i care about them and i feel the need to want to see ZE:A fans to help set a good image for ZE:A. good image is not just by not criticizing them you know? i actually believe that criticism helps build them up n help the boys grow to be even better. but apparently, people hate it whenever i criticize or say what could've be changed to improve them. so i tone down, and just say it where i feel safe to rant to my heart's content.

But shallow criticism is something i can't accept. and things like this to me is categorized in that category. shallow criticism. and one that helps to build bad image of the fans to people who see the unpleasant comments.

There are many girls paired with ZE:A that didn't leave stellar impression on me either. okay, not that many. take Jihyun for instance. everyone n their mothers who stalk me would know that i dislike her(ohhh, i have stalkers too? wow). but did i say i wanted to kill her because she's paired with hyungsik? no. i didn't even want to kill her. and i didn't dislike her because of hyungsik but because of what i see about her in the show n the way she treat others didn't leave me with good impression at all. in fact i didn't even watch the show for hyungsik. lol. you have no idea how much i restrain myself from bashing her for hyungsik n ZE:A's sake though i know my dislikeness have nothing to do with ZE:A....because i know people who see i love ZE:A would relate my dislikeness to ZE:A.....even though i can point out solid arguments on my side...but i'd rather keep it on the safe side n just rant wherever i could that doesn't affect so much. even Siwan....some of the now-many girls he paired with doesn't sit well with me....simply because i don't like the girls or the bleh-chemistry/appearances-that-match-too-much/their annoying fandom....but there are also a few actress/idols who successfully made me ship them with Siwan....and coming from his fangirl.....am i not being fair n generous there?

i know asking for you to support the boys' pairing with girls can be too much. but the least you could do is not saying things like you hate her or want to kill her or she should die just because she's paired with your oppar. especially in the cases where you haven't even watch them together to hate her so much. it's not like they decide it on your own to pair up with each other or something. and same goes to girlgroup fans. just because i'm focusing on ZE:A doesn't mean you're all that good either. it's not like i never seen girlgroup fans bashing the boys paired with their girls. and i also know there are many boygroups with worseeeeee fangirls....sometimes my eyes almost go blind just reading what they have to say.....but y'know....we don't have to set the standard that low. aim high for ZE:A, won't ya? make them proud. besides, ZE:A isn't underaged little boys trying to act all manly  like many boygroups out there. they're all adults, and i bet if you're at that age, you'd want to be in relationships as well. so be understanding at least. don't you get happiness from seeing them happy? isn't that what being a fan is all about? do you really believe.......that you'll.....get to marry them?

gasp.

sorry girls. i don't mean to burst your bubbles but yeah.....this is just my piece of advice....sometimes i feel that i'm wasting my life too. i know i'm not gonna get anything out of this hardcore fan-ness....but it makes me happy. i often feel that if only i'm given a chance...there's so much i can/willing to do for ZE:A (like make better decisions on their music/song/styles/promotion.etc. run star empire with my wisdom etc...oops, i did not just say that lol)...without expecting them to marry me in return of course. lol. i know...i'm a lil stupid too....for being so hung up on idols....when i should worry about my real life. i even have time to nag at you fangirls when i could've done something productive for myself...well, maybe i have to admit i myself am not matured enough as much as i want to be. but face it....you can never be that matured to be a kpop fan.....but you don't have to be so naive either.

let's find the balance n maturing together, keep loving them, but don't forget to love yourself n life, and you know....just stop thinking oppar gonna marry you n only you cuz that's unlikely to happen. wanna bet?

keep loving as long as it's not destructive, but don't expect anything in return other than their music, their hardworks n brilliant performances in shows n stages. because that's our relationship. they give you happiness for viewing n listening only, you give them love, support n money. lol. they're the performers/businessmen and we're the audience/clients. as harsh as it sounds, that's reality. the relationship....is no more no less at the end of the day. sad, but if you're willing to accept it, then keep loving no matter what. just don't let yourselves fall in depression because of naivety to believe something you should know isn't true.

 

 

no, i'm not a ZE:A'S. i'm just a person who love ZE:A.

thanks for reading.

sorry if i'm being too harsh.

i hope you don't hate me for this.

well, if you still wanna hate me, then what can i do? :p