Personally, I want them to have girlfriends. They deserve to have their own lives and not for it be made according to fans. If other idols can have girlfriends and get married, why can't the SuJu boys do the same. I think they deserve at least that type of freedom in that department. I hope it's true, but I think people are making it bigger than what it actually is. Yeah, Donghae may be sad, but that could be a multitude of things: 1) he wants a girlfriend of his own 2) he feels that Hyuk won't have time for him etc. To be honest I think people should let them date freely. They work so hard to make us fans happy, it's time for us as fans to let them be happy for once. They are getting to that age where they want to get married and start a family of their own. I think it's time for us to let them. When people were saying that the girl from 4Minute and Donghae were dating, yeah, I was really sad because he is my bias, but I got over it. I want them to be happy. I'm sad to say that people have left the fandom for this, but it really isn't our business to know who they date. We should be thankful they want to tell us at all. I know that some guys who are dating want to announce to the world that they are dating someone, but because it's SuJu, they know that if they do, they could get backlash from fans. We should know, that as ELF, Eunhyuk is a very sensitive guy. I mean, his schedules got canceled for goodness sake. Imagine how he is feeling right now. And Leeteuk might be worried for him if he heard the news. Hyuk just got the chance to be a speaker of SJ and now it's taken away because of the photo and because people are taking it way too far. Kind of reminds me of the JongTae incident. If you're a fan, I think you should support their decisions. Yes, I knew we all dream about meeting them, and having them fall in love, but we know somewhere in our heart that that isn't going to happen. okay, for now, this will be it. If you have anything you want to say (agreeing, disagreeing, yelling etc) make a comment and voice your own opinions.