mingmeister:

Okay. 

First, do you think their managers would just let him sleep and sleep if he had work to do? Didn’t one manager haul Leeteuk off to his van one time when he was so tired and he still had a schedule to attend to? If Sungmin—and any other member for that matter—doesn’t have schedules he has all the right to sleep, come on. I would sleep, too, if I were him. /rolls eyes/

Re: gap between members. Nope, I don’t think so. I don’t think they can ever perform and interact the way they do on stage (e.g. in Super Shows) if there’s a “gap” between Ming and the members. Besides, they’ve been together for more than a decade now (trainee years included) and with Leeteuk as the leader, I doubt gaps between members would remain unresolved for long.

He nags and sulks and rarely smiles at members? I know Sungmin to be a really quiet person who keeps to himself most of the time so it’s not really a surprise to me that he doesn’t smile at anyone, period. About the nagging, he barely even speaks, let alone nag. 

What’s so bad about sitting and listening? Sungmin’s not the leader and if I was, I’d rather my members sit and listen than in and be annoying. 
“He is a follower and not a leader.” Wow, what a revelation. 

“His function as a leader in SJ-M is non-existent.” He is not SJ-M’s leader per se. They were not appointed a leader after Hangeng, but let me refresh your memory a little. During SJ-M’s interview with Cool Magazine:

Kyuhyun: ”Although with this new album, it was not said who is the leader, but we all have a silent agreement that it is Sungmin. Because he takes care of us really well.”
Zhou Mi: ”When we are practicing our dances, Sungmin hyung would gather everyone to practice together, or get everyone to do something together. He would take the lead. This is why we have a silent agreement that the leader is Sungmin.”

“As Heechul temporarily left, the first thing Sungmin did was take over Heechul’s cross-dressing plan.” Like Marilyn Mingroe was the first time Sungmin ever cross-dressed. I know Lady HeeHee’s phenomenal, but Sungmin’s crossed-dressed a number of times more than Heenim. Everybody knows Sungmin’s quite the cross-dresser since the beginning. Besides, ‘taking-over Heechul’s crossressing plan’ — that’s just ridiculous. Do you think the decisions about what they would and would not do on Super Shows rest on each of the members alone? I don’t. 

“There was one occasion he could not get a line perfect. Donghae was given the line later.” What’s so wrong about not getting ONE line perfect? That’s ONE line. We all have our limitations. So what if Sungmin couldn’t get that ONE line straight? I’m sure some of the members have been given tasks that weren’t meant for them in the beginning as well. That’s what other members in a group are for.

“There is nothing special about Kyumin’s friendship.” I will let Siwon tell you. 

Siwon: “I remember when Kyuhyun first joined us, he wasn’t that familiar with us, it was Sungmin who had his back from the start, their relationship’s like brothers, it only increased and never decreased over the years, like they could be friends forever. They would give each other moral support even if it was something unrelated to our performances. Us members are pretty touched watching them from the sides~”

“Sungmin also had 3-4 relationships with girls from different companies and so Kyumin had been deceiving me.” *SNORTS* Re: deception. You are so funny. I ship Kyumin pretty hard and if this was true—about Sungmin dating—I would never say they’ve been deceiving me. They aren’t in SJ to make people believe they’re real. You think like a 12-year old. But you probably are. And if Sungmin was dating, good for him. My bias is normal as can be.

“In the dorm, he never cooks. He is not a kitchen person at all.” When did Sungmin ever say, “I’m a kitchen person, y’all.” 

“He is just like any other man. I believe him to be truly cute and feminine but he is very opposite.” It’s not like everybody doesn’t know Ming’s both cute & feminine and manly. Even the members can attest to that. This makes me like him even more.

Wow this is long.

found this at tumblr..