so i got rejected

so i had a moment of weakness and confessed to the guy i liked.

judging by the title of this post, you can probably guess what happened.

it's completely fine -- he's just not interested. never said he didn't like me or anything just said he wasn't interested. he also said that this doesn't affect our friendship which is good, but i feel like it's the slightest bit different now.

i'll admit that i cried for a good while after. it's not only that but a combination of the stress i've been feeling lately. it seems like that was the cherry on top.

i'm not really one to take risks like that, but i admit that it does make me feel a bit better, putting my heart on the line like that.

i think i can get over it pretty quickly, but it still hurts. i've never been through anything like this, so this is all brand new to me. it kinda really hurts.

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PrincessVivi #1 Aug 31, 2019 07:20:28

OMG dude, i am so sorry. but!! i was in your position 2 months ago, and as someone who came out of that situation feeling 10 times better, i want to tell you that it'll seriously all be okay. i know it now- it's depressing and an ego blow. i literally cried on the roof at work for 3 days straight HAHAHAHA even tho i was like...... its not that deep whats wrong with me?!?!?! but i think thats just natural.

anyway, i would really recommend for you to hang out with your friends a LOT in the next few weeks. it'll make you feel a million times better. DON'T see him or talk to him for at least 2/3 weeks, though. i know it seems like a lot but you need time and space away from him to get over the feels and the rejection. like please please please this is so important lol. anyway, you're a ing badass and really cool and you'll be just peachy heheheh. love you dude <3

sleepingprince #2 Aug 31, 2019 03:39:14

I'm sorry to hear that . I think its best that you know the truth now although it hurts. At least you dont have to spend time wondering about all the what ifs. That would save you alot fo time and effort. Time will heal . The right person will come for you .

MidnightOnyx #3 Aug 31, 2019 02:01:33

Aww I'm sorry honey. It's ok to feel back and cry, just don't let it take you over. You can get out there when you're ready and try again, there's someone out there for you who will be just right and no worries, you have time!! You're still amazing!