how to stop thinking about love

Hi guys. Hi everyone. How's life ? I just wanna say that I really miss everyone here, like a lot!

So many things changed, be it bad or good, we all have no choice but to embrace it, right? Time sure flew so fast that suddenly I realise it's my final year in college, next semester I will start my internship omg I feel old. I feel quite excited, but scared. Yeah, scared. Here comes my insecurity again. I'll be meeting my supervisor tomorrow to discuss about my final year project which actually I have no idea about it. I don't know what the hell is wrong with me, but my mind is really complicated right now. To the extent that I cannot even focus on my final examination, which I am still right now. My mind has been bothered with a very stupid thing which is love. I dont know, I seriously don't know since when I have allowed that subject to enter my mind. I used to just busy myself with my studies, being focused on my goals to be a doctor but right now everything messed up. It's not like I fall in love. It's more on "hello isnt there anyone out there in love with me?" It's like me being fear of feeling unwanted. , right? I know I should stop this but sadly I don't know how. Whoever who has tips please I beg you, drop your tips down there in the comment box. I need to fix myself so I can get back on track, to foucs on my studies. 

Love can come later, right?

 

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Kyrill1591 #1
In my case, i somehow managed to get rid of a hard crush on someone that didn't feel the same way as i did. It's kinda related to your problem so i guess i'll just drop the few things that helped me forget that person. Busying yourself with other things than working might do the trick even if you may not have the time to have fun. I personally began dancing and playing music, it actually became a habit to dance and play a bit of guitar everyday or at least twice a week. It's pretty tricky to explain but fulfilling your "lack of love" with your passions helps a lot if you want to forget. But also, talking about how much you actually want to be loved to someone who is willing to listen to you is, in my opinion, the best way to cleanse your mind. Whether it's a friend or a member of yout family it doesn't matter as long as they are here for you to share your pain. Sorry for the broken english i'm french. I hope that will help in any way while you make your way to the path of becoming a doctor :)
LayDZhang #2
I think it's hard to think of an advice. Just calm down and let your mind think about it first before you focus on your study so it won't bother you later while you are reviewing your lessons (I'm not sure). Hope this helps.
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