Anger Spikes III: Oh for 's sake. Don't stop writing because you get citicized, you wussy motherer

Yes, I'm talking to you, you ing s. 

You think that because someone doesn't like your that it means that you should just stop whatever you're doing and never do it again? 

GOOD LORD Y'ALL ARE WIMPS. 

Here's the thing about life and feelings - they are inherently incompatible. We have life smack us in the face all the in time over small bagatelles - and we weep. We cry like the little es we are because we're weak. But guess what? Progress, diligence, and to overcome your ty feelings are all choices. They are choices we must make every day in order to survive how terribly we are sometimes treated. 

Listen. You're gonna have a time if you take everything people say about you to heart. Besides, you shouldn't mistake the citicism you are given on something you've made for criticism against you. It's not about you, it's about the ing thing we're looking at that I'm telling you . You aren't even involved beyond the touch of your fingers, because that's what has created what I dislike. 

So let's take writing then. Your level of literary competence leaves a lot to be desired and you lack poetic license in what you've written. Your plot is illogical, filled with holes and damaged components. You've taken no care in avoiding classic traps, but instead fall headfirst into them. 

I decide to point this out. 

Then you think that you should never touch a keyboard again because "oh my god someone on the internet hates my things". 

C'mon, you can't do this. Not to yourself, not to your audience. We need artists to grow, we need writers to keep struggling to make good content, we need to work harder. Learn to say "well , that hurt, but it's over now and there were some valid points in there which I can work on". I'm not telling you to love your haters and to embrace every little thing they've said and hail it as gospel, but I'm encouraging you to take a ing step back from your own work in order to see what the is going on. 

We're gonna have people who validate our own concerns and our own insecurities. We all have an inner combat with ourselves, in fending off those very insecurities and the perceptions of our flaws, but we mustn't lose that combat. We mustn't give in to the temptation of digging the hole deeper and then deciding to ing live there and pay rent. 

No. 

Let people hate your ing stuff. Let people decide that it isn't worth their time. Let people write that it's awful. The next step you should take after that is to let it motivate you. 

You should be the person who decides that while it hurts, it won't stop hurting unless you choose to make it stop hurting. You are the only person whom you can control, you are the only one who decides what harsh words mean to you. Better yourself, elevate your quality and foremost, KEEP GOING. Why stop now? Why stop when it's the perfect time to improve and become the better version of yourself that you want to be? Somebody just ing told you what you're doing wrong! How can you stop when you've just found out what you need to do? 

Here's a good tip: murder the opinions of the critics by making the comeback of the ing century. 

I don't want to write angry blogs about how the idiocy flows free in writing here forever. I don't want to write about how there is nothing but poorly concealed thirst in a variety of shapes and colors on here. I want to write how ing impressed I am by the work you've done. I want to see how you've come out with the most vomit-worthy writing only to improve so ing much that I can't even contain myself and I have to praise you. 

Please, give both yourself and me that satisfaction. 

 

 

 

 

PS. A little clarification. I need y'all to understand that I'm not talking about internet bullying in this post. Criticism, feedback and opinions on your is one thing, someone telling you to kill yourself is completely ing different. If someone bullies you, that person and whatever they're doing. That is ty and you shouldn't have to face that. Ban their sorry asses. 

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LilShiro123 #1
Lol im an architecture major and this post is basically my life lol.
Hellody
#2
ing hell, me. Say it louder for the people in the back. I hate this God forsaken bubble of this damn site. I don't understand how the hell we have come to this hood of how you can't criticize anything "authors" write - even though its pieces of if that took a - in this website because OH NO, "you are spawn of the devil!" These hypocrites say they want feedback and then lose their heads when they get a comment that doesn't praise their work even though it's the most generic pile of dumb. I was looking at the featured stories and now I come to understand your annoyance with this crazefest we have going on. Honestly people need to read this. If entitled s can't take negativity then what the hell are they doing on the Internet at all?
vividimole
#3
I've actually encountered a person like that. I was reading this person's story and when I left comments about some errors in her story, she said that she's stop writing after finishing this story. Initially I felt bad. I thought that I caused this and I tried to tell her that I pointed out these errors to help her, not discourage her from writing. In the end, I realised that it wasn't my fault and that if someone can't take criticism for their work, that's their problem.
bohubear
#4
Acknowledging the educational side of these blogs, I have ended up reading them for sheer entertainment because honestly, this is comedy gold wrapped in necessity. People need to hear all of this.