So... gotta let go... i guess?

I like this one person since elementary.

But he bullies me, because I'm not pretty or cute... 

And now when we saw each other after 5 years..... old feelings resurface

His mom told me I look so pretty that I look so different from before.

 

He smiles at me now when we meet, back then he will just ignore me.

I was so sad, angry, and most of all dissappointed.... will a guy just notice a girl if she is beautiful? 

I don't like boys like him, back then I think he was cool and handsome ( even now!! >○<) 

And now the radio is playin jump and fall by taylor swift.....

Ughhhhh......  need advices

And not just him, he has 2 friends that always make fun of me.... one of them will just ignore me. The other 1 sat next to me....

And the one who sat next to me that mocks me will wink and send a flying kiss in my direction if we meet.

The other one will smile at me shyly......

So confused....

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Bubbles246 #1
If this guy is now looking at you and treating you a different way because of your appearance than he is no guy to spend time on. And if old feelings resurface it doesn't mean you have to act upon them, they could just still be there because they're from the past. I wish you the best of luck and I'm sure you'll make a good decision that is best for you
yeshi_love_yixing #2
You will find the right person at the right time.
The person who destined to you.
So that don't worry about them.
Because I'm sure that one day you will meet a person who doesn't love only for your appearance but to the heart too.
Till then study well :)
beautifyme #3
i'll def move on. it's not like he's the only guy living in the world. you deserve to be loved sweetie~
sim_mona #4
Don't waste your time or energy worrying about what they think of you... honestly anyone that bullies/ mocks others for any reason are immature s that bring others down to make themselves feel better. Just ignore them, you'll meet much nicer guys in the future
nishikigika #5
find a man who wont change the way he acts towards you appearance wise.
find a man who wouldnt be a dickwad to you but rather a dickwad to those who provoke you.
find a man who you can treat a best friend and a lover anytime, anyday.

basically they dont fit any of those criteria. ; (
bubble1765 #6
Forget them. They're dumb. Absolutely dumb.

If they're acting like douche bags, they're not worth your time.
CeceExo-L #7
Nope, don't let him get to you. Let those feelings go because I know EXACTLY how you feel. It hurts knowing you have to look a certain way just for to get someone to notice you. So yea, if he notices you just because you're pretty NOW (and don't bring yourself down because of him, I bet you were born beautiful and you still are now) then he definitely isn't worth your time and doesn't deserve your affection. As for his friends, don't let them get to you either. Find someone who loves you for your personality more than your aesthetic appearances. Find that person who would sees you having a bad hair day, raggedy clothing, and still find you the most beautiful girl in the world. That's who you deserve. :)
Emycyingztars #8
WHAT THE HECK?! I'D PERSONALLY COMPLETELY IGNORE THEM IF I CAME ACROSS YOUR SITUATION

Ok, but if someone is being this shady after having bullied you in the past, the only person you can take commands from or feel responsible for is yourself. Trust whatever you trust, and if you feel like they're sending you mixed messages that you don't like, brace up and straight up tell them how you feel. And don't say sorry to them anything because you shouldn't have to have to apologise for how you feel: your feelings are yours and that's the end of that. Do whatever it takes to make you feel comfortable.
DGNA_Forever #9
The way he treated you before was wrong, but was also part of his own maturity (or lack there of), and he remembers how he treated you and KNOWS that you're the same person, so I would just move on and ignore him. As others said, you'll find someone someday who adores you, loves your inner beauty, as well as your outer beauty and sees YOU. The important thing right now is that YOU see that you are beautiful and worth every good thing you get. That's the most important kind of love♡.
Dreamying #10
I dont think you should give a damm about those kind of guys. Ignore those snorts..

I would never say that ur prince charming would come to you, cause lets face it, life is not a fairytale.
But there would be definitely someone out there who deserves you.
justmydailyrant #11
He doesn't deserve you.His change in feelings clearly show that he likes how you look than what you are
blackluna #12
He's no gentleman. That type of guy won't stay with you for long and take you for granted. You deserve someone better than that.
GrassMower #13
1 piece of advice: all men are absolute trash dont ever trust them!!!!!! and dont take any of that from them either!!!!
JiYuKuo #14
Let go that kind of people. Trust me. Been there done that.
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