Questions.

 

 

Is it fair when someone you care, you treasure, you loved doesn't give much as much as you give to them? 

Your attention, your time, everything but at the end of the day, you realized you haven't receive much as you ever gave. 

Is it fair?

To the point you started to feel tired of giving much thus why you give up. That time, you know where you stand after giving too much. 

Did they ever care? Did they ever know you're exist? Did they ever treat you as important as you treat them? Even once? 

Is it fair?

Is it worth it for putting your heart on the line for those who doesn't even care about you? Again and again? 

Is it fair?

Trying to move on, trying to get used to it but it doesn't lessen the hurt nonetheless. After all those bull, you're still care yet they don't know. Are they stupid? Or you're the one who is stupid for letting them hurt you all over again?

Is it fair?

When you put everything on the line for the sake of them; your heart mostly, giving all of you because you care, is it fair?

Is it fair when those left you after what you did, what you gave, everything; after they met someone knew? Are they better than you? 

Is it fair?

At the point you start to have a fear. 

A fear of losing someone you treasure; but at the end of the day, what's the point of keeping them close when you know you meant nothing to them?

Is it fair to have these fear for them? 

You kept your thoughts to yourself and bear the painful jab in your heart because you don't want to drive them away. At the end of the day, they left.

Is it fair?

Is it fair, if someone else come over; to befriend but the first thing you feel is fear. Fear for letting them in, fear for getting hurt, fear for giving them chance, fear if one day they do the same? Hurting you?

Is it fair?

Do you have to shut yourself for the sake of your heart? Or should you try until you found at least one person who will treasure you and accept you for the way you are? Until when do you have to try? Is it worth it?

Is it fair when you left with no one else after what you did? Is it your fault for letting them hurt you?

What you should do?

 

 

 

 

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redvelvet22 #1
A feeling of not being loved by the one you love, I can say that I'm pretty much an expert of it. But look, in my opinion, love is about giving. You give them your love, your attention, your time, and sometimes your money.
You complain whether it's fair or not. The situation must be you feel less worthy, unwanted, and tired of just giving and not receiving. If you feel like your efforts aren't reciprocated, ask yourself if they're really worth it. Because in the end, you'll find yourself void. I mean, eventually, your heart will give up. Try to let go, don't blame them if they treat you that way. Perhaps they just aren't the right ones.
Don't give up. Don't be scared to fall in love. Relationship needs time, tender care and passionate love so that it'll grow beautiful. Also, you'll always find hurdles down the road, but if you trust each other, love will find a way. :)
deeryoong93 #2
when it's come to love I think... it doesn't matter whos give more or less as long as they love each other. love is not bout who's love the most or less but of course always there's the one who has the love more than the other. but if one of em didn't even see the effort other the other I think there's no point to hold on right...?
don't let them drag you down. I think you shouldon't shut yourself down from people entering your life. give em a chance that they worth to be in your life but don't let your guard down. it's not your fault that they hurt you it's a shame for em to let you down after every effort you did for em. it's their loss not yours.
sarahinfinite #3
If only I knew what to do, I would do it. But for now, I just let 'em be. I do know that I'm not important to them and that's it. I kept my heart, my feeling guarded. I stop expecting them to appreciate me. I stop hoping they would treat me the way I treat them. It will only hurt us more if we do hope they care. For now, they're neither friend nor foe though we still keep them around. Maybe one day, someone better will come and then is the time we should cut them off. It's not like they even care. I'm just a dead star in their Galaxy of acquaintances.
JSS356 #4
If you put your heart out so many times and they don't return the favor, give up. Don't be afraid to let someone new come in, give them an opportunity. It's only your fault if you let THEM hurt you, you shouldn't even bother with them if they hurt you. Don't worry it WILL get better in the future :3 , don't let something like this bring you down
fishda #5
well that's how i feel right now too..and it's not fair, nothing's fair. you give all your best, all your attention to them but still they don't appreciate it and still mean nothing. you'll feel you're being used and it hurts so much. to the point that you'll get tired and just stop. stop because they don't deserve your best, they don't deserve you. and stop because you don't deserve to be treated that way. but hey i'm hardheaded so i'm still trying/sticking it out. maybe one of these days i'll bump my head, wake up and say to them "who you? do i know you?" lmao

cheer up! ( ˘ ³˘)♡ mwah!
gorjessSone #6
Is it mean of me to say that you should not care as much as you had towards them? I know the feelings, I've been there before, so trust me when I say I do know that feelings so well. I think in this world, there won't be even a person who really really care about us... they may claim that they do, and some who even do a good job at pretending that they care, but at some point, it doesn't take a genius to be able to tell the act and the genuine one. You should not put much care and not as attentive as you are because only that way, people will notice and start to pay more attention to you, and only start to care about your feelings and they will be aware of what you think of them whether they realise it or not. People start to notice you the moment you take little notice of them, trust me..people are just like that..
corinneniix #7
I feel you... I really do. But in times of this, be on the constant lookout for those who care for you/you can share your burdens with. No matter what, they will always be people who care for you. Really.
If you really don't find anyone, just try your best to brave through, start each day strong and will yourself to be happy. It can't guarantee that you will stay happy throughout the day, but it keeps you strong. Also, sleep early if you feel sad or burdened. The sleep can keep it off your mind.
Additionally if you have the time, try to do things you like and make yourself happy. Otherwise, a simple smiling at yourself in the mirror, clapping your hands or jumping around can help.
If you ever need someone to talk to I'm always here. :)
SyudHamid1991 #8
Sis.. when it come to the point like this.. it better u let ot go or let them go. Throw away all of them from ur heart n life.. i know it hard but it will be better.. better than holding on onto someone that dont appreciate u.. better than hoping that one day they will love u the same.. let them go n start new without anything about them hurt u..
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