Catcalling isn't cool.

Okay. I was walking my dog for a long time because it's SUCH a nice day outside. Next thing I know, some truck honks at me and the dude gives me a pedo wave. Then the truck stops in the middle of the road, and the guys are asking what my name is, how old am I, where I'm going, and what I'm doing later. 

Okay... contradicting my previous blogs, I am a nice person. I try my best to be really nice to everyone. HOWEVER, I've been catcalled a LOT by older men since I was ing TEN YEARS OLD. I don't live in a ghetto place. I live in a very safe town/suburb in Northern ia. However, who in their right mind would catcall two little girls? All those old men stare at my (which I barely have) and look at me as if they want to have with me or some . 

Now. I of course wasn't having it so I answered his questions by asking him why the would I tell him. He kept calling me a , and was saying that he was trying to be nice. Um no. that weak excuse. If you want to be nice... just don't bother my dog and I when you DRIVE PAST US. that's it. That's nice. 

I literally just had to lie to him to make them back the off, saying that I have pepper spray and I'll blast their faces if they don't ing leave. 

Calling me a rude a couple times, they finally leave. 

 

HOW THE AM I A RUDE WHEN YOU'RE THE ES THAT WON'T TAKE NO FOR A ING ANSWER.

Now I will say, I am thankful. I wasn't kidnapped or . and some people may think that I'm going overboard. But no. I'm not. Girls everywhere has to be in constant fear of walking alone at night, or when they see a man alone; they need to put their guard up. It's sad. No person should be afraid of something so stupid. And yet, people say it's the victims fault. That they were "asking for it" when they wear a bikini, or short shorts, or a long cut top. 

Let's get one thing straight. It's NEVER the victim's fault. 

Fine if they wear short , they shouldn't mind the stares they might get. It's pretty much out there most of the time, and even I can't stop looking at a girl's chest if they're HUGE and popping out.

I had to deal with that one time too... I wore a really low cut top by accident and next thing I knew, my friend's boyfriend kept staring down my shirt. But, should that friend's boyfriend kidnap me and me because of it? NO. HELL NO. 

 

So to make a loong story short. Those of you that thinks catcalling is cool or do it in general... or know people that do.. just stop/make them stop. I don't care if it's for fun or whatnot. 

Catcalling isn't cool. It's gross, demeaning, and it makes that girl as some ing object.

you. 

 

#girlproblems

# SHOULDN'T ING BE GIRL PROBLEMS

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mistressdean
#1
You are not going overboard. In society, girls are supposed to be "nice." We have to accept all compliments and speak when spoken to because if we don't, that makes us es. society. the boys who think they are doing us a favor by catcalling us.
MissMinew
#2
Ugh, my friend and I also experienced it once (and I live somewhere were I am not afraid to walk around in town at 3 am becomes it's so rare that something happens). But this car filled with young men just stopped and started saying the grossest things ever to us and then they drove off only to wait for us (we were riding our bikes) where the road had a turn to continue their verbal assault - and it continued like that until we drove into a small side road pretending we lived there and called my mother to us home.
Cat calling is awful and - UGH. Gross.
smile_music_love
#3
PREACH IT SISTA!
I have the same problem as well! Like its so annoying and the fact that they call ME a like OH HELL NO.
Their lives are so sad, catcalling girls that are young enough to be their daughters.
That's no no.
tazmanian-asian
#4
*CHEERS AGGRESSIVELY IN AGREEMENT*
Hell Yes! I see no lie...