Fangirls Feelings : My reaction in ChanDara's Couple

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I will write my reaction about Chanyeol and Dara's couple.

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Hi guys! Random girl here ^^. CHANDARA , what a lovely couple name. Whenever I hear those words , I feel sad. You know why ? Because My bias in exo is Chanyeol , when I hear that Chanyeol has a crush or something about Dara , I suddenly feel gloomy and sad. I don't know why but maybe because I love him , but he just love me as a fan :( . I think my Aunt is right, my aunt is keep in telling me not to idolize kpop groups anymore because it's only just a waste of time and money , you just waste your life for them because they don't know you. You know how I feel when I see a news about ChanDara ? I just feel hopeless because you know that Fans have no possibilty to have their bias as their boyfriends , but if you guys really is destined to be together with you bias then you both really are a match made in heaven. I feel that my hearts just turned into pieces , my hearts been crying all over Chanyeol. You know what's my themesong when I hear about ChanDara ? Just listen to apink's LIKE A DREAM , this song really expresses how I feel when I hear about ChanDara , especially the first line " I hope everything is a dream , I hope everything is a lie. " this really express my feelings . I hope that everything is just a dream about chandara , I hope everything is a lie about Chanyeol having a feeling about Sandara . You know that I haven't been recovered yet. I just saw many videos about ChanDara in youtube and many people like their Tandem , except me :(((( , instead of me happy about them , It's just makes my feeling about Chanyeol more worst. I'am an optimistic girl together with my classmates at school , we called ourselves as EXO-G means Exo Girls. But because of what I saw on youtube about dara and chanyeol , BOOM! my world just collapsed . I think that many people really likes ChanDara , me being an optimistic is gone , I hope someone in kpop world can build my hearts that was in pieces again. Maybe I'm smiling but deep inside I'm dying. Sorry for those who ships ChanDara , I'm really sorry about my comments , but this is how I express my feelings . This is the only way that you can know how I feel inside when it comes to chandara. Guys , can I still have Chanyeol eventhough there's a Dara in he's heart ?

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Bbhfever #1
It's okay. I'm a hard core Chandara shipper, but the odds of them dating is a no. /.\
We all know he's a fanboy, but we really don't know how he really feels about her. Maybe he just really likes her as in a sunbae and respects her a lot. This is why I read fanfics, because it cheers me up unlike reality. But really, I just wish for the best of the best for them. Like Seung gi and Yoona. I really ship Seungzy cause of Gu Family Book, but we all knew he really loves her from Strong Heart. I don't really like Yoona (no hate, just not a fan) and Seunggi as a pair, but we could tell he's really happy. And I think that's all that matters. But I was like you too, I was devastated and broken when some people ships a pair or something (kpopper for 4 years), I know how you feel, but over time you'd get over it. We all know they are humans and have to date + get married. We don't have the right to stop them becuase we know we are also gonna get married one day so telling them they can't is wrong.
What I think about Chanyeol's feelings for Dara: it's like, just a fanboy/fangirl thing. We all love our idols. If you'd get the chance to date them won't you go for it? (Even though they are years older than you)
icyglareshizu93 #2
It's okay :) we all have different opinions and feelings...and I already felt what you've feeling right now. I was like that a few years ago when I hated Yoona because she was being paired with my bias, Kim Kibum (he is a member of super junior but I guess now, he's an actor)...but when I think about it now, after almost five(I think?) years that had passed, I felt like I'm being immature(wait~~it's not to offend you, it's for me because I hated Yoona, yah know...I should have not hated her, she didn't even do anything wrong...)

But then, just hang on in there^^ time will pass and you will get used to all of the delusional shippings and then you will be able to just...ignore it...^^ I'm a Chandara/2nexo shipper, but of course, all of the shippings that we do and did are just for fun...it's nothing serious^^ so yeah~ just continue loving you're bias and just ignore us,okay?...

and one more thing, don't fall hard for Chanyeol, it really hurts, big time...trust me, I already felt that since I've heard the news about Nickhun and Tiffany...thank God I was not super duper in love with Nickhun at that time and I was able to accept them and be happy for them...but then it still hurts because he's my bias in 2pm...
maryfairy303 #3
awwwww you're so cute! I totally understand, but as an older k-pop fan I'll tell you after you get a bit older you're passion will inevitably finish. Then there are people like me who still read fanfiction...at my age...don't judge
I remember being so annoyed at shippers! I was like no you may not degrade my oppa! frankly speaking most fanfiction is nonsense but sometimes we need a little nonsense in your lives to keep us going on. Chandara is pretty much delusional, I mean we will probably never know if Chanyeol really does care for her, he probably just respects her
I hope that you will be able to lok past us wishful thinkers, and perhaps one day be happy for Chanyeol if he does find someone special :)
I wish you all the happiness as well ps. sorry for making my message too long :/ I hope I didn't offend or bore you
-CrumpledPaper- #4
LOL.I'm a chandara shipper and I'm not angry at you for saying your feelings towards our ship.Maybe you should learn to ignore shippers like us? That's what I do when I see a ship that I don't like and makes me upset.I do things to AVOID seeing any posts related to it.Example,I don't like skydragon (CLxGD) I'm selfish when it comes to GD LOL, so when I see tags or any comments regarding it I quickly remove the tab from my laptop.

I hope this helps~ :)) *Taps shoulder* Focus on idolizing Chanyeol more but don't be so serious about it, cuz it'll hurt like heck if he gets a girl someday.
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