Sam, a 21-year unemployed student,

submitted this problem to ASK SHINHWA:

Well my problem is concerning my 'friends'.  They're actually very selfish and use me always for their benefit.  But I am the type of person who has difficulty saying "no" to them.  They drag me around (literally!) making me do this and that and then they ditch me whenever they feel like it.  I am an introvert so I don't go around making lots of friends.  So I don't have the luxury of leaving my current friends for new ones. 

Oppa-deul, what should I do?  It annoys me so much. 

But if I leave them, I'd be a loner with no one by my side. :(

Sam, annyeong!  I understand what you're saying about this kind of friends.  Personally, I hate friends who are capricious... always changing moods and behaviors so suddenly.  I really hate that.  I also get the part where you say you are an introvert.  I am one too.  But you know what?  When I was doing military service, it really changed me a lot.  I am still a shy guy but I've learned to control it.  When necessary, I go out of my shell.  Being an active soldier for two years really put a lot of perspective in my life.

So my advice to you is -- ditch these inconsiderate friends of yours and join the army!

Well, I simply hate those friends who get birthday presents from me but doesn't show up on mine.  So yeah...they're using me too *pouts* 

There are lots of people who have difficulty saying "no," so don't feel too bad about it.  Let me teach you how say "no". 

First, put your tongue on the roof of your mouth and say: "Nnn....nnn....nnn..."  Then form your mouth into a small circle and say: "Ooo...ooo...ooo..."  Now put them together... "Nnn...ooo....nn...oo...n..o...no...no!"  Got it?  Waahhh.... you're a bright girl!  Now go and practice! XDDD

I really hate that kind of friend who eats my food after saying he wouldn't.  *side-eyes Lee Minwoo*

Waaahh...your friends are a piece of work!  They order you around?  For free?  Those ungrateful people!  And YOU!!!  You need to wake up!  You're unemployed right?  Well, this is a golden opportunity for you to earn money while spending time with your friends.  You n