At some point of our lives, we are faced with situations where we are forced to make decisions that would change our lives. The change is either for the better or for the worse, depending on what your choice will be. When these times of decision making comes, we are given two options; right or left, do or don’t, leave or stay, talk or be quiet, live or die. There is this illusion that we fail to look past through. It is the illusion that our choices are only and always limited to 2 only. The truth is, it is not. We are given an abundance of options and choices but our brains are imprinted with the rule that it’s either this one or the other one and not this one or the others.

Other people decide after pondering over the matter for countless times, some does it spontaneously, others just succumbs to the pressure that comes with the decision that they have to make. But decision makers that choose not for themselves, but sacrifices for what they think would be best for the other people involved are the worst of them all. They think they are selfless by doing so, but the truth is they are the opposite. Instead of making them happy, they are only inflicting more pain on everyone.