SUP GIRLS AND BOYS OF THE FANNING WORLD Violet Karen-sama here to share the daily and common struggles of every fan

#fangirl/fanboyproblems

1. NO MONEY (dun dun dun) - since the DKFC(oh my gosh so HOT SEHUN X3) my money was dissolved like a bubble and we didn't even buy any merchandise sad to say. Of course it is worth it to see your bias up close and personal but boooo you use up all of your money. Then there is also the problem that there are concerts are lining up and what is worse that all of them are your favorites OH MY GOSH what can you do your salary, allowance what ever is all going down the drain

Well unless u know someone like this:

 

2. CRITICISM

– it’s a load of bull I know but we know that we can not avoid it… people criticize your bias that they look like a girl

 

I mean does this look like a girl to you:

 

How can THIS be GAY

(OH MY GOSH HE DOES NOT...OKAY MAYBE HE DOES BUT STILL... )

that the man of your dreams is prettier than you(my mom keeps telling me that...). Or even tell you stuff like ‘eww k-pop is so baduy(lame)’, ‘what do you see in them they all look alike’, and worse ‘k-pop is so GAY ’   

         

   haters we don’t go out pissing the hell off you. We never told you to like k-pop. Then there are those that dance Gangnam style, Gentleman even by well known haters (my classmates)… well da fuqq is this it’s k-pop too dummy D:< tpos kung makasayaw wagas pusang gala nman oo…woops sorry moving on

 

 

3. FAN WARS – I MEAN COME ON SERIOUSLY DO WE REALLY NEED THIS can’t we accept the fact that they all are working hard to ruin our lives… I –I mean make us happy and make our ovaries explode (…) so one side likes this and another this blah blah blah… do you see them fighting over who’s the best they all just want to make us happy

 

I mean

(…man I’m running out of ideas umm lez ssee)

 

 

4.  STUDIES/ WORK – I MEAN W/ ALL THE THINGS GOING ON IN THE K-POP WORLD well w/school work and those stuff we have no time to be updated who’s dating who, new songs, comebacks ARRRGH!! Well learn to balance it here is a technique my mom uses on me (she’s good)

 

a.) Reward system- if for example you want merchandise/ concerts, you negotiate…yes negotiate w/your mom…yes YOUR MOM because as a student all your money comes from mom funds there is no dad funds in my situation because mom has the final word on everything =.=  back to the topic… example there is a test or exam and you promise to pass or maybe get at least a B or better an A on every test in exchange for stuffs.

 

This can also work for working fans like if you finish all the given task to you by your boss or reach certain goals reward yourself by buying a thing like a baller, poster, any merch really

 

 

 

 

b.) THREAT system

 

yes you read the word THREAT quite clearly this is the most used technique on me DX here is an example

This happened a day before the DKFC concert here in the Philippines around 7:00 pm, it actually landed on our last exam day THANK every god out there that it was a half-day

 mom: if you don’t get at least an 85% on all your exams you are banned from using the computer and I won’t let you go to that concert

 

me: but I paid… I mean YOU paid for it already Q.Q (I was so sure that would work)

 

mom: I don’t care, if you don’t stop thinking about that concert and focus on your studies you will not see that Sehun of yours

 

me:  

 

 

mom: stop being a drama queen and study already!

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 AND YAAAY I GOT A 95% ON MY STATISTICS  I went to this concert w/ YellowBANANA, infinitelygreeny, blueD.O.nut

 

I’ll share some of our experiences while waiting in line.

 

Damn it was long we heard some arrived at 9:00 am(dedicated fans) while we were waiting ‘A WILD EXO APPEARS’ OH MY GOSH WE HEARD THEM

 

‘A WILD EXO APPEARS’ OH MY GOSH WE HEARD THEM PRACTICING A FILIPINO SONG ‘HAWAK KAMAY’(holding hands) YellowBANANA recognized D.O.’s high note and TOLD blueD.O.nut about and they were both like 

and the fans started screeching. And I was like LOL I mean look at all the derp faces in one place.

 

Then the hours dragged on slowly while the sun‘s rays shined steadily and sweat coated us like second skin… LOL Wut then so we waited and waited then…OH MY ShuiGHIOYAHTSEYAHOGIA WE ARE STARTING TO ENTER THE CONCERT GROUNDS YAY FINALLY… THEN EVERYTHING CHANGED WHEN THE FIRE NATION ATTECKED. THE PEOPLE WENT IN FIRST WERE THE ONES THAT ARRIVED LATE THE MOST FAQQQQQHSUYHGYSAENGHIKSE WAAAAA FAQQ YOU DX

 

RANDOM FANGIRL: GRABE ANG TAGAL NG PILA BILISAN NYO NGA NAG COMEBACK NA ANG EXO >:( (damn the line is so long, could you hurry it up EXO already made their come back)

 

Me: LOL ate(what we call older girls) u so funny  then told others

 

 

US:

 

 

5. BIAS LIST

 

 

– well here we go the most important in every fangirl/ fanboy is the list of favorites from every member of a group you like/love. Well  I’ll tell something to all of you this is where I admire k-pop fans the most being able to remain loyal to his or her bias… well all I can say is I salute you :3. Well back to the topic .

 

Your bias is the one that capture you the most at ‘FIRST GLANCE’ be it in an MV or showcase he/ she is your ‘love at first sight’ mine is

 

 

Sehun in EXO-K

 

 

 

 

Luhan in EXO- M

 

 

 

Zelo in BAP

 

 

 

Key (SHinee)

 

 

 

Henry (Super Junior M)

 

 

 

BoA (girl bias :3)

 

 

 

 

Well that is what I know and what me and my friends mostly experience well why don’t you comment below on other problems that you face maybe even tips on how to over come them haha well FIGHTING!!