To Ms. Congeniality!

Dear Blank, Please Blank, Sincerely Blank..

 

I'm a girl in a one month relationship. But there is something bothering me, my girlfriend is still friends with her ex-girlfriend and I was feeling so ed up about it! Should I believe her saying "We're just friends, there's is no way I'm going back to her." thing? Like what the ? Everytime, they're having a gathering I'm always paranoid and what so ever. She's not replying fast and when the picture is uploaded on the SNS they're always sitting beside each other. 

 

What should I do? :( 

 

(c) Paranoid GF

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frans89 #1
Chapter 3: Dear GF who always run errands for you,

Honestly, i don't know why you chose the clingy one if you don't like this kind of type. You know, the time before you and her in relationship, i think everyone has to know each other first (except you got arranged marriage XD) , so you must be know her characters before. And now you do complain?

In the other hand, you're also right, being in relationship it doesn't mean you don't have your 'me time', you need to work, socialize with other friends , explore your hobbies. I think you need to discuss this important things well with your gf soon, or this is gonna be a big time bomb in the future. You can explode someday, and you can hurt your gf , yourself and your relationship. Just prove her that you are not cheat on her even you are apart. In the end, tell her trust is important one in relationship. So you must trust, give faith on each other.

The last advice i give to you, do think carefully before you do anything. Don't make a rush decision when you are not in cool headed. Don't say anything hurt when you are angry, it will make you regret after that. Just calm down, and discuss it. After all love is consensus, need your both understanding to make a relationship stable and feel comfort.
frans89 #2
Chapter 2: Dear Paranoid GF,

I always tell everyone : Trust is the most important thing in relationship. If you don't have any, then reconsider to stop your relationship. Don't hurt yourself or your girlfriend because of your insecurity.

But first of all, please ask your girlfriend about what really happen with your girlfriend and her ex. (clarified their past story, so you can know how your girlfriend felt about their last break-up.). So there is no misunderstanding between both of you.
Then, some people said that being friend with your ex means you are adult enough. You can move on , get a new partner and still to keep good relation with their ex.

Anyway, please be wiser, think carefully before you do anything. Don't make a rush decision when you are not in cool headed.

Chapter 1 :

Dear Ms. Cheat In Fire,

First of all, I really hate cheaters. But i believe somehow love can come late.
I just give one advice to you, to end your relationship with your current girlfriend first, before do further relationship with Ms. Hwang.

Before that, please think carefully, do you really want to sacrifice your two years relationship because of this?
Sometimes when you feel curious and feel guilty pleasure because of your cheating act, can make you crazy, like you really in love, feel excited. But it is just for a while. If the spark is gone, you just feel empty.

Again and again... Please be wiser, think carefully before you do anything. Don't make a rush decision when you are not in good senses / mind.


(PS : Dear author, i love your unique way of writing. Keep going! :) )
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