i'm gonna be real with you, as a femme person i'm getting pretty tired of the "male lean!" or "male only" ads. i get it, genuinely, but it's disheartening. you've probably seen this ad before but i always draft it after not too long for insecurity reasons. i'm lonely, i want company. everyone i seem to talk to either ghosts, rubs me the wrong way or we don't click.  here's what i'm looking for: mdni, i'm 21.  hopefully minus or at least someone wi