I don't think any of us can know exactly how you feel but I hope you don't turn to hurt yourself as a solution. Inflicting pain on yourself will not make the emotional pain go away.
I had a friend who I cherished dearly and continue to cherish. Her feelings towards me were not the same as mines towards her. Under pressure I explained to her my discomfort in the topic and she told me we couldn't be friends because her feelings would never change. Our friendship broke off and I still miss her and try to think of the best moments we spent together. I was sad at first but today I know that this is better off than continuing a friendship were the feelings weren't mutual.
I don't know the situation between you and your friend. But if it is a real friendship, then things will workout. Try to clear up the misunderstanding and if they don't wish to listen, then perhaps their feelings for you are not the same.
Always remember that to love others and care for them, you must learn to love yourself and care for yourself.
I hope you won't result to harming yourself because whether you notice it or not, there is a line of people who care about you. Turn to your mother and father, and there is a pair that love you unconditionally.
Take care.
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I dont know the details, but Negitive feelings will be buried with positive ones! Im glad to hear you reframe from such thoughts....pls dont hurt yourself. Take care and stay strong!
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