Lost Respect :(

Since I've grown up, my older sister didn't care me like her own sister.

Because, when I got fever, she said I'm lying.

When I'm angry or having PMS, she said I'm being so immature.

I know it kinda small problem.

But, she don't have any respect towards me making we feel so awkward each other.

We don't talk and jokes anymore because of it.

She kinda strict and bad-tempered person.

But, she managed everything, payment etc, for our family instead of my father. ( My mother died 12 years ago because of Leukemia )

I know this blog kinda childish.

Because, I don't have someone to talk with.

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Dhenia #1 Jan 8, 2012 20:36:41

aigoo
I pity u so much chingu ah
Do u have any other relatiön other than ur dad n sis? Or bestfriend?

himitsu #2 Jan 6, 2012 03:06:33

-hugs- I know I don't really have a right to be saying anything since I mean we don't know each other really.. But I know how hard it can be sometimes to feel like you are being mistreated and just not respected, especially by a sibling. I'm the oldest of four siblings, so I want you to know that even if your sister acts like that, underneath it all she really does love you. She wants the best for you and she probably acts like that a bit to take on a motherly role. She might also just be irritated and therefore taking it out on you. My sister does that to me all the time. Just know that that phase will pass. As you grow older you will come to better understand each other. As long as you do your best to try to understand her, and to try your best to not let her comments get to you, and to be kind to her, your relationship with her will get better.

I hope that helped, I'm sorry if I seem creepy. I've had the same kind of problem with my sisters. I felt like they weren't respecting me and didn't care about me, but they thought that I was looking down on them. I just wanted what was best for them.