Why Be someone your not?

Alright.

So I know.. I keep doing weird blogs.
But I need to get this off my chest. And I don't want to make a diary.. Cause than it will be like I'm talking to the wall.. Plus. I kind of need advice on how to take this situation, right after I had exapilaned it to everyone.

Anyways...

Lets say....

There is this friend... Trying to pretend to be someone she isnt, just to impress this group of girls. Who are popular.. Which I don't know why.. She has alot of friends.

But she is changing herself to much and to fast. She's acting like someone she isn't and I don't know if I can see my same friend in her.

I feel like it's a different person, I'm talking to, I'm hanging with and more.

When even I pass by her in the halls, She acts like she doesn't see me, When I try talking to her it's like she avoids me.

even if I just want to see whats wrong.

I don't know what to do..

I feel like I'm losing my best friend, And I Don't know wiether to just cut it off with her..or Trying and talking to her.

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robyexobaek #1
ooh..the scenario/explanation of your problem looks like it's taken from a film/of a fanfic...
My advice is to keep trying to talk to her and convince her that she's not made to be like that girls. If you can't do that than it means that she doesn't care about you anymore and she alr left you. But if she really still wants to be your friend but she can't tell it out loud, ignore her like she does with you, and I'm pretty sure she might miss you and want to talk to you.. I dun understand your friend.. i mean why to be someone else when you GOT a chance to be yourself, the perfect limited edition person and not like the other ones!! my friends keep telling me I'm pretty while I'm not so they still close the conversation with telling me that I'm a limited edition person.. what i strongly recommend is to not become like your friend and enjoy the group.. seriously don't be like her even if she asks it..
~ There are many pple in this world who might be your friend.. Why don't u look for other pple? they can be your friends too but be carefully, they have first to earn your trust so that you wont regret later.. oh before i finish (what kind of group of girls are thos you're talking about? Are they pple who talk behind everyone's back, comment about everyone's clothes and think they are the best? If yes make sure your "so called friend" doesn't use stories/conversations and memories against you, it will totally turn out in a disaster :/ )
_kkaebsong_ #2
Being yourself is the best way to go, everyone else is already taken lol
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