I think after all this fans are selfiah for calling him selfish and for kyumin i rad hundreds of fics and sa vids but it was also a common sence for me and alot of people and fans whome i know that it was a thing that came along with liking an idol group since h.o.t days and that didn't affect my judgement secondly he is selfish for getting married ?? You want him to stay single ?? So that after 30 years you are happy in your home with your husband and kids and he is alone i mean if he doesnt get married now when will he be able to and when will he have kids and make his mini nins and ge the chance to spend time with them thirdly the gifts thing i mean they get ALOT of gifts some of them they don't get the chance or need to use so why not give them to his fiancee make her happy and feel thankful to the elfs who helped him thirdly judging the girl when we don't know her and the attack is a dissapointment elfs if this happened to other idols you would support them but when it comes to ours why being like this i never blog or talk but sometimes one has to voice their thoughts