Soooo, sungmin is getting married on Dec 13. 

many fansites are closing because of that, many bashes to our sungmin. Well, maybe because of that but because of

 
1. He wears couple ring on stage, even wears it for album jacket photoshoot.
 
2. He followed his girlfriend to her drama filming site. There was a making/BTS recording at that time then Sungmin acted like a cameraman and shoot his girlfriend. 
 
3. During fansign, fans can’t talk about girlfriend or marriage or the managers will threatened,” you dont want to receive sign?”
 
4. After their dating news revealed, a fan posted on Sungmin blog, “For yourself and for SuperJunior, can’t you just date secretly?”
The next day, the post was deleted by Sungmin.
 
5. Sungmin didnt care about fans concern for asking them to date more carefully, instead they go on a musical date publicly.
 
6. A fan posted comment on his blog, “Who wants to leave just leave and who want to stay just stay.” Sungmin upvoted the post.

Sungmin deserves his happiness, yes. But ELFs get our happiness from him too. He has been with us for 9 years, hiding it as we wanted. It's time he can go as a full, 30 year old grown man?

but, this insensitive, uncaring Sungmin isn't the Minnie I know, I can understand the hate and confusion. 

I still wish the best for him. 

Opinions, anyone?

...BUT ILL STILL CONTINUE ROWING MY KYUMIN BOAT. 8D