There is no one to blame but ourselves actually (referring to SNSD's Ex-member Jessica Jung Sooyeon). I mean, if you really think so hard about the situation it's really a simple logic...

1. People naturally judge others. (No offense to that but hey it's true...reality hurts like a "b" with an itch)

of course, Celebrities (Even nonCeleb to be exact) lies in some part of their life...Why? simple because they don't want to get judged. Even with the saying goes "Just be yourself" or "I don't care what other people say" can't help you but to cower down and defend yourself from the judgmental eyes and mentality of the society...That's just how it works...they attack, we defend, vice versa. (I don't know where this came from but meh~ *shrugs*)

2. Even sisters fight. Now that's a true statement. if one of you says that you haven't argued with your siblings even once...dude, hands down on you...

3. Not to offend any journalists and paparazzi..but DUDES AND DUDETTES! CELEBRITIES ARE HUMANS TOO! THEY NEED PRIVACY JUST LIKE EVERY LIVING HUMAN IN THIS PLANET! if she wants to get married...why not wait for her statement? you can ask for permission to interview her...not assume things over a petty and lame (sorry to be rude) evidence. trust me..go to a court with that evidence and I swear you'd fail to prove you stand in the Jury.

maybe she got kicked out...maybe she didn't...but one thing is for sure, WE CANNOT ASSUME AND DECIDE WHO'S THE PROS AND CONS..c'mon people, we're not playing some virtual RPG game here where we can guess and make ourselves and everyone believe what really happened. No. That.Is.Just.Plain.Wrong in every way you look at it..These are real people's lives we are dealing with. with one wrong statement (could be true or not) it would cost how we see the person and what we would think about her/him (either we believe or not). so i ask each and everyone..if you don't know nothing...Keep.Your.Mouth.Shut.. or at least tell them it's just your hunch or opinion.

To my fellow SONEs...Let's be strong for them...9 stays 9 no matter what. :) I believe in SoShi bond. we might not understand their situation right now but hey, "there's always a rainbow after the rain" right? Himnae~!

Pardon me for ranting...

#OT9 #JessicaJung #SNSD